WHAT ARE YOU HERE FOR?  

rm_ebonygeisha 40F
15 posts
5/26/2006 1:52 pm

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5/28/2006 12:40 pm

WHAT ARE YOU HERE FOR?

Honestly and truly, is sex the only reason that you're on AdultFriendFinder? Not to say that love and marriage is anyone's intention here, but what about a connection, a bond, a friendship? Sex, without these things, is a waste.

Give me your thoughts and opinions....



vidiohunter 51M

5/26/2006 2:16 pm

I was just on my out when I saw yer post, I wonder about that my self .I come here in the hope of connecting, finding some relection of my self ,out there among the masses. and occasionaly I find it ,.mostly I find insight ,and insperation,and laughter....and a good enough reason to keep me commin back. Im not thinkin I would care to meet some one just for sex.....nope not me. great question tho enjoyed the oppertunity to respond thanx


aguytosee 44M

5/26/2006 2:20 pm

Wellllll, considering that AdultFriendFinder is the "The World's Largest Sex and Swinger Personals Community"....then I would assume if you are on here, you would like to have sex with the person you are writing to in the end. I am not sure how experienced you are with this site, or sex, or swinging, etc....BUT usually after writing a few emails, a talk on the phone or two, and the first meeting will determine whether or not your going to have some fun. What I am saying is that 99% of the time there will be attraction, some type of bond or initial friendship before the screwing starts....so not sure what you are asking??


rm_ebonygeisha 40F

5/26/2006 2:43 pm

    Quoting aguytosee:
    Wellllll, considering that AdultFriendFinder is the "The World's Largest Sex and Swinger Personals Community"....then I would assume if you are on here, you would like to have sex with the person you are writing to in the end. I am not sure how experienced you are with this site, or sex, or swinging, etc....BUT usually after writing a few emails, a talk on the phone or two, and the first meeting will determine whether or not your going to have some fun. What I am saying is that 99% of the time there will be attraction, some type of bond or initial friendship before the screwing starts....so not sure what you are asking??
Aguytosee, I am going to have to disagree with you a bit there. I completely understand that this is a sexually driven community, but there are so many people on this site that are completely comfortable with "hitting it" without even knowing your last name. That's sort of scary to me. I am in no regards a prude, but what about getting to know what's beneath the surface? Sex is so much better when you get under a person's skin and really know them.


curious311241 34M
145 posts
5/26/2006 10:11 pm

My primary reason for being on this site is to expand my sexual horizons, however it is also nice ot be able to talk with somewhat like-minded people, at least as far as sexual openness goes. Our society still largely considers an sexual topic rather taboo, so it is nice to connect with people who are comfortable discussing sex.


aguytosee 44M

6/13/2006 8:16 pm

Thanks for the posts everyone. In response to Ebonygeisha, you basically said what I said, and there is 1% or more out there on this site that will "hit it" without knowing your last name (most people never give out there full names for encounters anyway unless becoming good friends)......BUT after being active in this community for the past 6 years, I've met ALOT of people and very few women or straight couples "hit it" without regard to attraction or some type of talking bond.


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