Married Life  

rm_eastside81 35M
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9/3/2005 7:07 pm

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Married Life

I need some advice about my marriage and maybe some of you could answer some questions for me.
I guess I start with a little background of me. I grew up in a poor part of TN and my parnets divorced when I was 6. I first got arrested when I was 7. I continued to have problems until I was kicked out at the age of 14. I fended for myself the only way that I knew how, by breaking the law. I eventually had an apartment in somebody elses name and payed my rent this way. I got locked up just before I turned 15 and didn't get out until I was almost 18. I have become a stronger person mentally and physically because of my past. Because of my past I made a promise to myself that I would never leave my kids fatherless to deal with the problems that I had to overcome.
Now I am married and have kids and have been for some time now. I feel that I am a good father. I play with my kids and I discipline them and I try to teach them values with letting themselves become victims.
My problem is that I have been married over 4 years and it's not getting any better. Before I got married to my wife we use to have sex a minimal of 5 times per week. Hell, sometimes we would do it 4 times in one night. After we got married I am luck to get it once every two weeks. Isn't this a big part of marraige? Isn't hard to hold an atraction after the passion stops? I still try to be romantic, but she finds a way to ruin it every time. Anytime I try to intiate anything sexual she shruggs away. If I try to talk to her about the problem than I hear about is "you don't love, all you think about is sex". Maybe I'm wrong, but I thought being intimate would help keep a marriage strong.
So do I leave my wife and lose being able to see my kids everyday or do I continue to be unhappy and be a good father? I would like all the advice I can get, thanks
P.S. Why do women change after marraige? If you love the person you married what do you do when that person changes?

doubelfun4you 56M

9/3/2005 8:19 pm

same problem here i got once a month sex .i had an affair now one time .i realy enjoyed it. she found out because iam a terrible lier .now she is pissed .wanna throw me selfrightes out.tomorow we met to talk about it

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