rm_dragonheat23 51M
977 posts
2/3/2006 11:24 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


One of my female co-workers and I were discussing our “first times” We both had very good memories. I was saving myself for marriage at the time. (And you thought only women did that) My girlfriend and I had been dating for about four months and one day during a heavy make-out session our clothes just kind of fell off and I had lost my virginity. It was a sweaty, passionate and yet tender encounter and one of the five best sexual experiences of my life. Once I crossed that hurdle there was no stopping me.
I hear about people who say that their first time wasn’t great. Most people I talk to about it however seem to have had a very good first time. I know mine was.

angelgrrl 48F

2/3/2006 2:22 pm

I think if your first time was with you had a good relationship with, it was bound to be a good experience. What makes sex bad really is when there isn't a mutual caring, and unfortunately, a lot of people do lose their virginity for the wrong reasons. I have to admit, I associate the 2 of Cups with loving sex far more than the Lovers

moonfire2u 69F
2602 posts
2/3/2006 4:04 pm

My first time unfortunately left me saying "is this all there is?" I was looking for the earth to shake...fireworks to go off...that didn't happen until many years later...I also agree the two of cups is a romantic card but then I wouldn't expect any less from you...

kind thoughts,

rm_dragonheat23 51M
1158 posts
2/6/2006 7:32 am

Angel and Moonfire, it was the sexual start to what was already a very loving and intimate relationship. I was sad when it had to end, but people grow, and sometimes grow apart. I still hold a special place in my heart for her.
I was torn as which to use, the Two of Cups or the Lovers. I decided to use the Lovers as it would have more meaning to the uninitiated. I would much rather have the 2 of Cups in a draw regarding my love life however.


2/6/2006 9:06 am

My first time (that I count) was on my wedding night, June 30th 1986, I was scared shitless, I told him "It won't fit, it's gonna hurt" He says to me "One size fits all" LOL
The reason I say the first time I count, is because it was taken from me when I was alot younger by force. So I do not count that.

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