Better left Undone  

rm_dragonheat23 51M
977 posts
4/12/2006 7:17 am

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Better left Undone

Last night I had the most amazing dream. I ran into an old lover of mine in a store. We reminisced about old times and she invited me over to her place. We had an incredible passionate love making session. End of dream
I have thought about her many times over the years. She was the first person that I fell in love with. To this day, she still owns a big piece of my heart. We were together for two years and had planned on getting married. I haven’t seen her in about 15 years. Last I heard, she was married and had kids.
I have thought over the years of trying to track her down and catch up on those 15 years. Given the internet and other sources at my disposal, it would not be a difficult task.
But, as always I decide not to. Leave the past where it belongs. Why spoil perfectly good memories with a dose of reality?

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
4/12/2006 8:23 am

If it's written, you'll bump into each other unexpectedly. Doing things intentionally doesn't always yield good results

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 6:32 am:
While I would love to meet up with her unexpectedly, I don't think that it would be a good thing. My memories of her will always be pleasant, I wouldn't want to ruin that

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
4/12/2006 9:44 am

That's a very wise decision, my friend!! I too often think of former gf's and it's just too hard and awkward to even try...

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 6:34 am:
I agree, we had our time together and now that is gone.

pet_humility 48F

4/12/2006 11:48 am

micahbiguns << is this you by chance. Has the
same title "The Road Less Traveled"

I have to agree on the leave things alone.
Cause sometimes reality really bites and ruins
the whole picture.

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 9:36 am:
Nope, not me

I will just keep the fantasy. After all these years, I would probably run into her someplace and she would have gotten really ugly, while I haven gotten a lot hotter since we broke up. She would want to get together and I would have to break her heart and tell her no. A bad scene alll around.


4/12/2006 12:41 pm

I fantasize as well but I am with you...keep the good memories! Thanks for bringing mine to life again today! blowing you a kiss!

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 9:38 am:
Glad I could help with your fantasy life and memories. Returning your kiss and trying to behave and keeping my tongue where it belongs.

HBowt2 58F

4/12/2006 2:24 pm

memories are good....and if it's meant to happen it will....what would you do if you met her?

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 9:39 am:
I don't know what I would do if I ran into her again. I have changed so much from the person I was then. She probably has also.

moonfire2u 69F
2602 posts
4/12/2006 4:51 pm

One of two things can meet and rekindle your romance and make more sweet memories or you meet and you realize you both have changed and ruin the existing memories...I think you are making the right decision...leave well enough alone....and try and make new and tomorrow...that you can dream about also...

kind thoughts,

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 9:42 am:
Good advice. I have enough to worry about with the present without trying to relive the past.

kelly402005 52F

4/12/2006 6:26 pm

Hmmmmmm..... Memories... Dreams........ Thoughts!!! Sorry... not!
~~ I have some, but they all lead back to why we aren't together!
If it were something that was meant to be, I'd still be there. Period.
I am not the kind of person that "hops from one man to the other"....... If it's something promising, I'm there.......... Truly. I don't mess with a man's feelings! Or thoughts, maybe, I'm too blunt for my own good! Or his......... Sorry..... NOT! rather be upfront from the get go! I'm not into games. Period.

Have a good day man,

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 9:44 am:
You are right, if it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be. I commend you for your desire to be up front with the people you meet. It saves a lot of grief and hearache down the road.

MoJo32565 47M/31F

4/12/2006 7:38 pm

That's a good attitude. I'm not strong enough to just let go like that.

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 9:45 am:
The letting go isn't always easy, but it is necessary. Living in the past can stifle your growth and keep you from doing what you need to do.

southrnpeach333 50F

4/12/2006 9:11 pm

some things are better left to memory......

rm_dragonheat23 replies on 4/13/2006 9:45 am:

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