First Fight  

rm_douglhers 41M
89 posts
8/24/2006 7:39 pm
First Fight

OK a long story short, ill do my best...

When i joined AdultFriendFinder it was because i was bored and lonely I expected nothing, I have a good idea about how the world works.

After a bit I met with a woman Beautiful intelligent but not for me, I thought I had said it all to her after all we had only been together three times, let me clarify for those of you who only think sex, we met three times. I thought she was very nice, but because of my situation and other differences I told her flat out i thought we should be friends.

After that I kinda chilled on the getting to know people thing and decided to concentrate on something a bit more selfish, me...

The problem is that during this time of solitude i met a wonderful girl whom I have been seeing with discretion. Well that back fired HUGE, I told her about the other woman and spared the details as to not confuse or hurt her as she and

I have become close in this short time.
For the past several days i have felt that something was wrong with her and she kept telling me that it was the birth day blues and so on but now the truth comes out, she doesn't trust me because of my discretion....

Well we got in to an argument well maybe not a fight but an intense conversation about what we each wanted, so maybe the lack of definitions has become a problem... I personally think that it was my inability to tell the first one about the other as i knew she had feelings for me, its not to say that i did not have feelings for her but like I said I just wanted to be friends. Is It so awful to want to end things on a high note, and salvage a friendship?

Listen up I LOVE her so what the hell do I do...

rm_aboutme66 51F
6047 posts
8/25/2006 10:40 pm

Tough place to be. I hope you get a gooc answer and it works out for you.

Someday is today.

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