Broken heart ville  

rm_douglhers 41M
89 posts
8/14/2006 7:09 pm

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Broken heart ville


There once was a man from nantucket....

Well this poor bastard found himself in broken heart ville all alone, well this comes as no surprise because he is a shy confused excuse for a man who i might add had been dumped by the woman he thought he thought he was going to spend the rest of his life with...

He wanders through several months of solitude questioning his reality and his purpose because he thought she was his reason for living, he gave her the world on a silver platter, it was his dream come true...

Well on this journey through this wilderness he finds this wonderful woman who he becomes very good friends with, well they become intimate sharing thought and well fluids, and things are great... Being with her is like being with an old friend or some one that he has known before.

The problem is that he loves her though they are friends, he feels that the point has come where he may have to make a decision to commit or move on and he is so afraid to loose her, but he is not sure he can do anything more right now, the problem is that he may break her heart and she deserves better then that, also she does not realize that to love her is painful for him and he has not yet healed yet.

He feels like he needs her in his life, she is always on his mind. When they are together the chemistry is all there and I'm not talking about sex alone.

The logistics are as follows...

He loves the friend (when i say friend i mean a real friend not some one you just know for a bit or shake hands with, she is kind courteous funny witty intelligent loving passionate and so much more....)

But he is not over the damage caused him by his EX


So the question arises WHET THE HELL DOES HE DO?

rm_aboutme66 51F
6047 posts
8/14/2006 7:40 pm

Show her this. It is a great explaination of what you are feeling and where you are at. It is honest and touching and the words are perfect.
Good luck

Donna
Someday is today.


rm_douglhers replies on 8/14/2006 10:47 pm:
Thanks so much, hope to see ya around more often though i haven't written much lately.... I'm sure that by now she has seen it, she likes to keep tabs on me, lol.... So i guess only time will tell...

readytolay_3
(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)
105F

8/14/2006 8:19 pm

If she is all that you say, she will understand for healling takes time...the very best to you both...Ready

Ready


rm_douglhers replies on 8/14/2006 10:46 pm:
She will understand and so will he.... It is a matter of timing and patience...

ncgx 47F

8/14/2006 8:22 pm

well luv...in response to yer prior post of what song do you think of when you think of me, and this very touching post...
Kirk Franklin's "Imagine Me"
Trust your heart, care for it....let that be your guide.


rm_douglhers replies on 8/14/2006 10:45 pm:
Makes me wonder?

drkwaterz 36F

8/14/2006 8:53 pm

To repeat a phrase you used in a later post: No worries! If she's your friend as she says then she will understand and be patient, but, this being said, if she actually returns these feelings, then you must also be patient with her as well. After all we are all human and handle experiences in our own way. If you communicate with each other and be honest, I don't see where the problem is, it's just another hurdle for the two of you to climb together, Good luck and best wishes!


rm_douglhers replies on 8/14/2006 10:39 pm:
She is a friend, well a friend of a friend etc.... And a good one i might add! I agree being patient is very important to this process though i think they both seek answers in one form or another...So they should offer love, compassion, honesty, and friendship to one another? Ill pass it on....

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