Are two heads better then one?  

rm_douglhers 41M
89 posts
8/28/2006 11:10 pm

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8/31/2006 7:13 pm

Are two heads better then one?

I know this has been the topic of recent discussion in the mag, but I have to get the answers for myself.

A recent encounter has me wondering what really works for the girls, and whether they make it a habit of telling us men what we want to hear or the truth about what pleases them. After all we would all like to be the thing that pleases our women the most. The male ego has to be one of the worlds most fragile things along with the possesion of an ego comes pride, what an easy thing to hurt. In my opinion the pride and ego of men are nothing more then a hinderance to us and we would be better off trying to shelve it if we knew what was best for us, though it is so easy to get built up by daily occurences, for example the subtle moans of a pleasured woman.

I know that in my experience I have used an abundant number of toys on women and loved every moment of it, especially when I'm going down on them, my favorite partner in crime is a g-spot vibrator. I didn't think I needed the help, you know three is a crowd, lol. But they always seem to like it...

Do toys actually improve the moment, or take the real joy, passion and sensuality out of love making?

Fact or fiction? Do you guys and dolls tell your partner the truth about there performance?

Ladies and gents what is your opinion? Toys or no toys?

drkwaterz 36F

8/29/2006 1:15 am

As far as do I believe they actually improve matters that all depends on the people involved. People tend to use toys for different reasons (i.e. variety in the bedroom, foreplay, or health reasons).

Now the fact or fiction portion of your question. I believe in honest when i comes to these matters, if your not honest about something that you don't enjoy, what's the point. Sex is supposed to be fun, mutual and somewhat intimate. If you can't be honest with your partner at least in this area then what's the point.

I actually enjoy toys in the bedroom, not as a substitute for the real thing, but kind of like a primer . They're great during foreplay, and as well as in between rounds . Hope that helps!

countryheart_71 45F
8082 posts
8/29/2006 5:39 am

I have never used toys with a man before so I can't really answer this one.


leggz4u2 38F
85 posts
8/29/2006 12:26 pm

I enjoy toys that don't buzz or hum. It kind of makes me numb down there. My fav? Thats kind of personnal! But I do soooo very much enjoy my heavy rubber viened double dong. It is about 12 inch long and has a girth of about 1.5 inches. No I can't take 12 inches, lol. Just past the head about 3 to 4 inches in works for me with my free hand pressing my bud. Oh this is a bad subject, what pervs!!!!! I Love it!

eveready06 41M

8/29/2006 4:29 pm

Toys - gotta love em! They add a bit of variety plus last time I checked I couldn't get my cock to vibrate at 100 rpm so they do offer something unique in the bedroom stakes! So long as its not a replacement for me tthen I'm quite happy to use em!

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
8/31/2006 6:38 pm

I dont think I have a G-spot but if I did Hell yeah.

rm_douglhers 41M
150 posts
8/31/2006 6:45 pm

I feel sorry for you. Glad you came by to give me a read hope to see ya around...

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