Funny Old World..being an Ex LOL  

rm_dizzyandfun 48F
1211 posts
5/6/2005 6:47 pm

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Funny Old World..being an Ex LOL

Over the last 2 weeks I have been amused, bemused, sad and gobsmacked LOL. It all started with a phone call from my Ex hubby about 2 weeks ago. He was married before ( so I guess I m an ex ex haha). He called me and asked me to get his first ex wife off his case - which I did by sending a very polite but pointed email ( I used to send her letters..aint modern technology great? ) She didnt like it and hasnt spoken to him since. Job well done and thanks received in due course. Next call.. a bare 10 days later..would I please talk to his GIRLFRIEND and tell her that he really isnt such a bad chap and it was all a HUGE misunderstanding (according to him..I agree with Again..job well done and thanks received in due course. Now his girlfriend wants to be my best friend ( I really dont give a shit about any of them LO and I ask this a triangle or (if there is such a thing) a quadr¬°wrangle (wrangle being the word) I find the a) naivete or b) cheek of my ex hubby astounding..or am I missing something here? I have a spy in the camp who tells him who I may or may not be seeing ( as in sleeping with..) he gives me shit on the phone alllll the way from Thailand (excuse me????? The land of milk and cunny lol) and then asks me to sort out his women, current or exes as they may be. Anyone got a good therapist I can talk too?? ROFLMAO.

rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
5/6/2005 7:04 pm

does he pay any alimony? be nice. If not, let him find his way out of his own messes.

rm_dizzyandfun 48F
752 posts
5/11/2005 7:38 am

haha...he asked ME for alimony ( or rather his lawyer did!!) Answer..unprintable lol. I just think its much for guys being the stronger sex...yeah rrrrrrrrrright....

rm_freshaz 49M

5/15/2005 5:02 pm

mags, your not happy, its obvious. and saying "ha ha" every other sentence just makes it more obvious. slow down, get your priorities right. best wishes, alan. bye

Shabsu 58M  
15 posts
6/7/2005 5:49 pm

Dizzyandfun maybe your name here....You're certainly not dizzy in life! Be happy and keep smiling and dont't let the bastard grind you down!!!

rm_mavrickhab 52M
1 post
6/12/2005 5:57 pm

I think you know what you need & want to do with regards to your ex? I do not know the reason for the split, but it seems as if something is still burning inside you towards him? you need closure, & if you know that their is some one inside your camp, why have you not addressed it? it seems that you are still a major part of his life & he yours? maybe I am speaking out of turn, & have said too much already? but you are a grown, mature woman, move on & think about your happiness....

rm_dizzyandfun 48F
752 posts
6/18/2005 3:12 am know me too well babes !!!

rm_dizzyandfun 48F
752 posts
6/18/2005 3:21 am

Maverick..when you have been part of someones life for such a long time, and they oart of yours, you cant just close off feelings and emotions. At least I cant. The decision was mine, and the guilt I bore for a while was crushing. We ( ex and I ) will always be in each others lives because we WERE each others life for so long. The spy must be a sad, evil little person who has nothing going on in his or her own world to have to get involved in mine. It just astounds me that someone would go to the trouble of calling overseas with snippets of gossip.

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