rm_dizzyandfun 48F
1211 posts
12/12/2005 11:26 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I just spent a very relaxing weekend with a very very nice guy. Lots of fun...giggles...and some( no...lots ) of great sex. Wonderful sex in fact.
I didnt advertise the fact that that is what the weekend was about..purely off the wall "dont give a damn" just chill and que sera, sera type weekend. Caution to the wind and fuck the begrudges. Well..we DID fuck..and no sign of any begudges anywhere lol..which was fine by me! ( Am stillllllll smiling roflmao).

Benji freaked big style and had to be sent on his holidays on Saturday, but thats a whole blog on its own. Suffice to say for the moment that within minutes of us arriving from the airport Benj was a couple of inches from my friends throat LOl..and this, a Yorkshire Terrier?? Fucks sake....(and that was his best behaviour LOl). Nightmare.

I hadnt said a word to anyone about the weekend. Butttttttt..apparently my gob almighty brother (whom I love dearly 99% of the time) HAD pmsl. The phone calls started on Saturday afternoon. Sly giggly calls from my friends, tongue in cheek " howzit goin??" type calls. You could almost feel the "nudge.nudge,wink,wink" gestures leaking across the airwaves.
Sunday was slightly worse. Once my friend had left and I found the strength to actually move..I had to go collect Benj. Oh joy. Lol. My bro and I decided...still in " who gives a damn" mode..to go to a local pub for a drink and a chat. Actually he NEEDED a drink because Benj had escaped twice and the poor lad was a nervous wreck LMAO.

Within MINUTES all my friends started trooping in. Jungle drums?? Gawd knows. I felt like a speciment under glass. Looked up and down. Grin measured. Noted. Sly smiles and little hugs ( I mean..I m not exactly a virgin..although romantic liasons havent been a priority for the last few months). Requests for allllll the details (no fucking wayyyyyyyyy jose) and on and on. Quite funny in its own sweet way Lol. Needless to say we all ended up pissed and I crashed on my sofa for about 3 hours when I eventually got home.

My friends all think I m slightly mad. They cant understand that it was just a weekend. A brilliant weekend to be sure. No relationship..no wanting or looking for a relationship..just 2 adults enjoying themselves. Having fun and enjoying a friendship just that little bit more. They admire my "avant garde" attitude (huh??) but dont understand how I am happy with it. More than happy with it. They think I m missing out.

Missing out on what?? Missing out on not having someone around 24/7 ? No thanks. Missing out on someone s moods and feeling guilty because you cant make the dinner date?? No thanks. Missing out on having to mould your day around " I cant..I have to..its because.." Jesus. Guilt trips unlimited. No thankkkks. Been there and done that for too long.

I m happy. Content..and excited by my life. My single life. Selfish..I dont think so. I m free. Free to do what I want, when I want, how I want, and with WHO I want. Bolshi ?? Damn straight.

My friend is of the same mind...we had a great weekend. and THAT is cool.

Dizzy xx xx

makisdsade 54M

12/12/2005 2:39 pm

You go gurl dat is wat iz like to live on an island paradise no strings attached maybe more woman shuld take a cue from u man an woman wuld get long better.

brightblonde3 58F

12/12/2005 2:39 pm

Dizzy being happy with Dizzy is what matters most of all.

Glad you had a great weekend....and Benji will forgive and forget...someday....maybe.



rm_dizzyandfun 48F
752 posts
12/13/2005 7:41 am

LOL BB..I d say that was a big maybe !! All goes back to his puppyhood LOL.

Diz xx xx

rm_EE407 41F
3903 posts
12/15/2005 10:14 am

<<< is a agreement with Dizzy! Way to go girl!!!!

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