Why men talk about their cock on AFF!  

rm_deaminveni 50M
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10/3/2005 1:58 pm

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Why men talk about their cock on AFF!


I recently received a reply to a very innocent e-mail (I was simply thanking someone for replying to a question). She expressed surprise, this was the first time anyone had thanked her for her advice, not only that but she was surprised that a man would write to her without discussing the size of his cock!?

Now, she is a stunning looking woman! So I can see why men write to her. Sadly her profile says she wants women, or couples, no single men (so I'm not mentioning her name 'cos some knuckle-dragging Neanderthal is BOUND to go pester her), oh another small problem for me, she lives on another continent .

Anyway, that got me thinking. Reading through a lot of the material in women's blogs, profiles, and articles written by women in the magazine you'd get the idea that the only thing men are capable of talking about is their cock.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm very attached to mine LOL but I don't mention it to every woman I meet in the street, why would I mention it to someone I meet on AdultFriendFinder? OK, if she want to see it I'll send her a cock shot, very few women seem to be bothered, very few ask.

One argument put forward by the men is that this site is an "Adult" dating site. Fine. And I like the chat, the blogs, and the magazine. But the overwhelming weight of evidence is that most women are bored with cock shots, they just don't want to see them.

Perhaps men assume that because they are visually stimulated by the pictures the ladies take then women MUST be stimulated by pictures of men's cocks (well, specifically THEIR cock). Hmm! OK, that's probably true for some women but, based on sales of pornography, which is overwhelmingly oriented towards men, I'd say it's obvious which sex likes looking at the other naked. (Most women who's profiles I surveyed profess to watching porn only in the context of actual sexual encounters, rather than "personal" stimulation.)

I suppose one explanation is that men with really HUGE cocks do not have enough blood to power their brain when they get a hard-on, so the cock does all the thinking. (Just kidding guys.)

someonelikeithot 50F

10/3/2005 3:23 pm

....R y really kidding??!!?? As a woman I have to say that the profiles with pictures of every possible angle of a man cock....do not exactly get my attention! ...Some are truly hilarious! (but I will avoid going into further comments on this because I would be falling in the knuckle dragging syndrome!)..
One has to wonder what face goes with "member".... and I m sure I speak for most women, we are more attracted to the face, smile, body.... and a nice profile...!


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