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Paying for sex...
Paying for sex...
What is the problem with paying for sex?
The standard macho response is "I don't need to pay for sex!". Well, good for you.
Paying for sex is not always about NEEDING to. It's also about immediacy, convenience, and fun.
There is something very "naughty" about paying for sex. Something honest too.
The going rate in the UK seems to be around £150 per hour (prices obviously differ depending on services, age, beauty, etc.), and discounted for further hours . For this, you get the lady of your choice. Hell, just log on to the Internet, browse through the ladies on offer, pick the one you like, arrange a date, stump up the cash, and away you go. Guaranteed no strings attached sex. No worrying about whether she's going to back out at the last minute.
Guys on AdultFriendFinder complain about being "virgins", or "there are no women looking for casual sex", or "I never get any responses". Guys, if all you're looking for no strings sex, get a hooker, a whore, a lady of the night, a prostitute, a harlot, or pay a visit to the "knocking shop". Spend your money, save your time (money you can always make, time once spent is forever gone).
No worries about the lady hanging around afterwards, no worries about her virtue (you know she's had plenty of men besides you), no performance anxiety (she's there to provide you with a service, not judge you), and no guilt (assuming you're comfortable with the idea of paying for sex).
It's simple. It's straightforward. It's great fun (and assuming you're not a moron, it's safe). You can find just about every sort of woman, willing to provide almost any service you can imagine. No awkward moment asking whether she likes anal sex, no guessing whether she takes a shot in the mouth, no guessing whether she's into domination/submission, it's all listed like a menu on her website.
For the curious amongst you, yes I've paid for sex before - and it was fantastic fun! Real "fill your boots up, no problems, SEX". Would I do it again, Yup, when all I want is a bloody good shag at short notice.
With a partner?
Would I procure the services of a lady if I were in a relationship, or if I had a "regular play mate", nope, that would be pointless.
If my partner wanted to try a threesome (with a man or woman) would I pay to have someone join us? Hmm! Depends how urgently we wanted to do it. If it was a spur of the moment thing then yes I would. If we were more laid back about it then I'd hang out on AdultFriendFinder and try to find someone.
Why AdultFriendFinder then?
Why do I hang out on AdultFriendFinder then? I'm on AdultFriendFinder for all sorts of reasons and only one of them is finding partners for sex. So far as finding partners for sex is concerned it's simple, if I hook up with someone who's good fun, no strings attached, then all the better because I KNOW she's into me as much as I'm into her, and that can only be a good thing.
Question to the masses
Have you/would you ever pay for sex? (Especially if you were getting something a little unusual).
10/12/2005 9:47 am
TomEboy; Exactly |