Is it all worth while?  

rm_deBoss1969 47M
21 posts
7/5/2006 3:30 pm

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7/18/2006 3:46 pm

Is it all worth while?

I often wonder, why I bother with this site. Been a male and a standard member, my arms are tied and my lips sealed. Unable to view or contact anyone. This place is full of wasters and fly-by-nights, voyeurs and pervs. But then I think off the decent people I've met and it seems so much better. I still can't agree with having to stump up money, just to do the basics, of what - after all - this place is all about! Still I suppose I will have to pay and upgrade, and no doubt, I will.

I have one special friend, and nothings even happened yet - and looks like it may never. That makes me sad. When we talk it's fun, like the song says "Sunshine on a rainy day".But lately, I feel like I'm been avoided, maybe it's just me - paranoid, as usual ... lol. Maybe I'm to slow at being forward, shit knows, but that's me. No pressure, I don't and won't push the situation (with anyone). I take everything at there speed, not that I lazy and don't want to, it's just not my way to be brash and pushy when it comes to a relationship - casual or otherwise.

The position I'm in, been married, is I know my wife loves me and me her, but there's very little intimacy and to her it's a chore. Why? I don't know, I have asked and can never seem to get a reasonable answer it's always "yeah but no but yeah but cos".

So thats how I find myself here, in search of affection, a chat, a cuddle, just to feel good about myself and make someone else happy about themselves. If I get more than that, then it's a bonus, but I won't push it and I hope I won't disappoint.

danigirl1000 56F

7/6/2006 12:50 am

Awwwwww, poor thing !!!
Guess you needed that moan, hun .
I'm not a paying member either, but I can still view profiles, etc. But I know it's different for you guys. They'll make you pay for wanting to contact someone, and this in the times of EQUAL rights .
I'm also a member of FLBUN, and now on the new thingy GB set up ( clever man that).
I love reading the blogs, just seeing what everybody thinks, does, etc. and of course making friends.
Take care

rm_deBoss1969 47M

7/6/2006 1:26 pm

Not really a moan, more an observation. No your right it is a moan, why should us blokes have to pay for something, that woman get for free? Not all of us are sex pests, and it seems to me that what could be a large minority of blokes is preventing the majority of decent blokes from using this service or then again maybe they think it's fair to run a sexist and therefore possibly illegally, discriminating against the male users on this sight? But who knows? I'll be your friend if you want, jeese, that makes me sound so sad and pathetic .... lol. Not on GB's new "Thing", thats he's set up - I did express an interest, but I'm unsure if I want to be part of it.

danigirl1000 56F

7/7/2006 3:53 am

Hi......and yes, you're right !! There are some decent blokes on this site too. You can actually have a good conversation with them....without beeing asked " What are you wearing"

I would like it if you were my friend too, and it does NOT sound sad or pathetic at all.

The other site is ok actually....bit like FLBUN, but the posts show up straightaway. GB is still trying his hardest to get some chat thingy downloaded.

Have a nice day

rm_deBoss1969 47M

7/8/2006 3:15 pm

Well, what are you wearing? lol . Only kidding. You're right mind, some blokes are so shallow, if they were a puddle you would hardly wet the soles of your feet. Mail me if you like - via the site naturally, wouldn't want to break there rules, lol . But I can be got hold of on em esssss en. Same handle (deboss1969), something to do with a hotplace dotcodotuk. Oops just broke the rules PMSL

rm_deBoss1969 47M

7/9/2006 6:40 am

typo, read for ....tit

danigirl1000 56F

7/9/2006 12:54 pm

Ha ha...I'd already worked THAT one out from your profile. BIG Clue in there with it.
Seeeeee, told ya.....I'm not such a dumb blonde.

But I never add people without permission, so thank you

rm_deBoss1969 47M

7/11/2006 2:05 pm

See u around then? Blonde and clever eh? (makes a change - apparently). A regular Sherlock .. lol , but who said you were dumb?

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