rm_dazia2357 37F
20 posts
1/9/2006 9:39 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


So all day yesterday I tried to get online but the line was running too slow, now I'm back...Anyway...Ok a little more about son is turning two tomorrow, and (By choice) I have been without most kinds of passion since. I am doing fine, not really into the whole one nighter anymore (except the occasional few people) I am ready to make up for lost time now, hopefully my pickiness will lead me to my pot of gold...Question of the day...Have you ever seen that one person you are so drawn to you had to make conversation with before they just walked out of your life?

rm_cant_be_true 38M

1/10/2006 4:15 pm

Yeah, but the restraining orders pervent me from being within 200 feet of that person. Just kidding maybe

I talk to stranger all the time, not necessarily because I'm "drawn" to them, but just because I love to hear what other people have to say about... well anything. It's refreshing to hear new people. Well, then maybe I am drawn to people, just not passionately though. Jeeze, here I go rambling again... I guess you can see how I get those restraining orders, hehehe.

Happy B-day to the kiddo!

xix12345 35M
53 posts
1/10/2006 5:04 pm

Hi Dazia, The site has been slow for me since i started and I have DSL connection (probably just so many members on at same time).

Happy Birthday to your son, hope it is a fun day for both of you.

There has only been 1 person that I have ever seen that I felt I absoloutely had to make conversation with them, it was sitting on a bus travelling from Melbourne to Sydney when I was in Australia, she was the cutest petite brunette I had ever seen and I sat thinking about nothing else but her for around 2 hours. I knew that once the journey ended I would probably never see her again, so ignoring my pride and risking humiliation, I moved forwards seats and started conversation. She turned out to have a personality to match and we hit it off like a house on fire.

For the remaining 8-10 hours we talked about pretty much everything under the sun and it was so easy I couldnt believe it, Unfortunately she had a boyfriend who she was engaged to marry back home, so nothing could come of it, but we still send fairly regular e-mails to each other, just letting each other know whats going on in our lives.

That feeling of seeing somebody that you feel drawn to talk to is (I think) your subconciousnus telling you that you are compatable with that person (not for relationships necesarilly) just that your subconcious knows you will get along.

Its better to try and fail, than watch and regret.

All the best


JDelicious12 41M

1/14/2006 12:33 pm

Happy b-day to your son. I also have children and don't have the time for myself that often. I think you are really pretty, let's chat sometime. boneman_bones.

rm_SomeWorcGuy 41M

1/17/2006 7:43 pm

You absolutely have to take that chance to talk to them....otherwise they disappear from your life and you are left with regret. It's easier said than done, but it's happened to me twice, and I summoned up the courage to do it- and it was worth it.

rm_mtyblkbear 43M
3 posts
1/27/2006 9:38 pm

Look happy birthday to your son I hope he got what he wanted and i hope you find all you need. I myself want a family but I may never have it 9 years of no woman can get a straight man down.

rm_bri28ma 39M
357 posts
1/30/2006 11:31 am

I definately have met people by chance that share a huge chemical attraction. I'm usually pretty good about talking to them and I've even had a few friendships spring from our healthy flirting. Unfortunately, never anything physical. Taking that "extra step" has always been hard for's hard for me to imagine they'd ever really say yes. How about you? Are you shy, or bold? To what extent? -Bri

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