can't sleep tonight  

rm_dazia2357 37F
20 posts
1/31/2006 10:37 pm

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can't sleep tonight

So it's been a while, and I don't really know what to say, but I feel the need to clear my mind in order to sleep. I have recently had an ideal encounter. The outcome, one that I have thought about for a long time, When I totally sabotaged myself. I now realize he wasn't the right guy, and maybe that wasn't the ideal situation for me anymore. Blah blah Anyway, I suppose i have narrowed down my preferences even more now, maybe that will help...My question...have you ever imagined you were sleeping with someone else while with your partner?

JDelicious12 41M

2/1/2006 6:57 pm

I think that is very common, it's called fantasizing. Don't feel bad about it, I bet if you took 100 people at least 75% will say they have done it.

rm_bri28ma 39M
357 posts
2/2/2006 5:42 am

Yup, I have. I'd like to say I'm totally "with" the person I'm sleeping with (or even conversing with), but sometimes my mind wanders. I hate it when it happens--I feel guilty and like to believe that I can live in the moment...but apparently not. Fantasy for me is different though. If I'm fantasizing when a partner is around, it's with that partner. Otherwise it's something I try to reserve for when I'm alone . My question is, were you thinking about someone in particular...or just a fantasy partner that had qualities your current partner didn't...and what were those qualities? Take care! -Bri

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

2/2/2006 6:40 pm

No actually haven't. I guess I concentrate on the lady I'm with and don't think about anything else..I've done role playing..but that is entirely different.


redunderdog78yah 38M

2/3/2006 9:22 am

I think that a lot of people do that. Hey send me an email if you would like yo hook up some time yahoo account redunderdog78 If you do not want then hopefully another woman or even a couple will read this. I am in the Norwich area of CT>

rm_red_wine_guy 40M

3/10/2006 4:56 am

Well, as far as "narrowing down" goes, I think that is a bad idea in any case (unless of course your standards are as wide as a football field). If you narrow the field too much, you will NEVER be happy, and it just gives you an excuse to continue bailing on relationships. It makes it so you can always say "well he/she just wasn't good enough for me". Now hearing that out loud, don't you sound like a narcissistic bitch? Haha. Not saying you are

As far as thinking of another person while making love, I hardly ever do, but it has happened. I can't speak for others, but I think most people out there are similar. No reason to feel guilty about it.. there's probably a good reason you were thinking that way!

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