Question for the men  

rm_darkathena 33F
22 posts
7/7/2005 11:41 am

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Question for the men

When having sex with a woman do u want her to be dominant? Or do u like her to be be submissive? I am trying to find a balance between the two but I am having a hard time finding a balance...

ToungeNcheqTony 36M

7/8/2005 10:38 am

MMm... it depends... when I woman is the dominatnant one it kinda makes me go crazy... like if she is fucking ME really hard while on top and then presses her self deep onto me, and the get off and makes me suck her pussy, telling me how dirty or slutty I am and grinding her wet pussy lips on my lips and tongue while holding my cock in her hand. Or having her demand really sternly what to do and how she wants it, and and doing things like aggressivly sucking my cock, not allowing me to touch her in the process just letting her enjoy her dick with out distraction.

Other times its nice to be the one in command, making her take off my clothes and suck my hardon, on her knees, sliding my hand on the nape of her neck and slowing stroking ym hard member into her mouth. The making her get up, bend slowy over the bed, maybe hand cuff her before sucking her pussy from behind and hearing her moans. Or Holding her arms down durign sex and fucking her nice and hard, not too rough but making sure she feel every deep stroke I place inside of her, sucking on her neck and lips and ears and kissing her exctatic moans to dampen the sound.

HeffIAm 33M
3 posts
7/10/2005 8:19 pm

I don't know about others, but I definitely enjoy both. Sometimes I feel like I want to be the dominant one and have her do everything I say. It's great to have a woman want you so bad. For me, knowing that she wants to please you and fuck you so bad that she will do anything is the biggset turn-on, not having power over her.

On the other hand, being with a woman who knows exactly what she wants and how she wants it is an extreme turn-on as well. If I'm with a woman and she is clearly being the dominant one, I will do anything she says. I love to please a woman and it is especially hot when she knows how she wants to be pleased. I am always more than willing to oblige.

I would say that I like a dominant woman more often than I like being dominant, but I think both are needed.

Idunno135 33M

7/22/2005 9:03 pm

Balance is nice. I would like ot be the dominant one. But everynow and then having a girl be the more forceful one is a big turn on. Frankly I have so little exp with sex I would need to mess around alot more to get an idea.

2inU2005 51M

9/21/2005 1:02 pm

Submissive. No question.

Get ready for a RITA!


tornado_255 41M
2 posts
10/10/2005 11:57 pm

it is all about what the woman wants. i like pleasing my woman.

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