Key to getting a response from a lady  

rm_dancer_640 66M
13 posts
11/12/2005 8:20 pm

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11/21/2006 8:16 am

Key to getting a response from a lady

Given the general ratio of men to women on this site, something like 100:1, I am sure that women in general get a large number of "hits", regardless of whether they are a paid member or not.

The big question is--what is it ladies, that is key to getting a response back from you? I fully understand (although apparently some guys just don't "get it" ) that a well structured, coherent email, without too many spelling errors, and one that doesn't simply say (either directly or indirectly) "hey baby, let's fuck" will not do the trick.

EyeCandy33333 44F
761 posts
11/13/2005 9:09 pm

I like to know that there is something going on up inside of that head-you know the one on his shoulders-lol. I do believe the best sex comes from within that mind- well using that and his "other" head. So I need to get to know a little more and talk a little more-I would think he would want me knowing more about him-emmmm well maybe-then I could maybe please him more as well. But I don't mind him telling me I am attractive and he wants to fuck me-I mean it is a bit crude but I am giving him the benefit of the doubt-and I really would want to be considered as "in the male view" fuckworthy or hot- I mean we females do like knowing we are hot-right????It is nice having all these goodies and being able to dazzle men-right???I like them turning their heads my way!!!!!!!!

sweetnspiceyme 64F

3/30/2006 11:02 am


You come across as an intelligent man. When other men write "form letters," ones that obviously show that the man has not read a woman's profile carefully and pays little attention to what she wants or doesn't want or where she lives or her marital status, etc., I will not respond right away or at all, especially if I am swamped with other, more thoughtful replies. The man needs to make the effort to have good grammar and spelling. It shows that he is educated and can express himself well. I look for someone with whom I can have a stimulating conversation. Being able to write with some humor also helps.

charliesexangel 54F
2937 posts
10/8/2006 4:17 pm

While I personally want to know I am desired by the man (being considered totally "fuck-worthy" as EyeCandy33333 states), I also agree with sweetnspiceyme's comment that the man has to know the details from a woman's profile. I already have run into that problem and I have only been a member for one week. READ the damn information thoroughly and DO NOT focus on only the sexual aspects of the profile! Personally, I took my time and answered all the questions honestly, but I was just as honest in stating my intentions for being here. So-MEN- please don't just browse and hit. While some women are here for fun, sexual encounters, others are here to find that one special man to experience fun, sexual encounters with on a daily basis. Maybe that can't happen here -but, I am taking a chance.

Fondly, Charlie's ex

rm_dancer_640 replies on 10/9/2006 4:39 am:
I enjoyed reading your comment Angel. You are right...most guys don't take the time to read a profile in detail, they just "click and shoot" as it were.

cind6 58F

10/20/2006 4:16 pm


I've received emails from guys who were not (remotely) in the range of matching my desired profile. I even received one complaining about his marriage. Most of us join to have a positive experience. Truthfully, I was ready to write off AdultFriendFinder until I read your message.

I definitely think you have it.

rm_dancer_640 66M
17 posts
10/20/2006 7:40 pm

Thank you, Cind for your comments.

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