Introspection  

rm_d0ughb0y35 50M
16 posts
6/7/2005 7:29 am

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Introspection


I've been thinking about why I have so much trouble getting even a response from women here, which I guess has kind of led me towards a bit of general introspection about how I do and don't relate to women in general. I think that, perhaps, I've had a bit of an epiphany, which for some reason I feel like sharing here.

When I was a kid - I'm talking around middle-school aged - I didn't exactly get along with the boys in my class. At that age, what's important is Sports, period. Either you're good at them and are therefore cool, or you don't and are not. I was a not.

By high-school, I guess I figured out that I could be friends with girls. I had a lot of girl friends, but not many girlfriends. I was someone they could talk to and be friends with, not someone to fuck. I guess I never really learned any other mode.

So now, I'm looking for that lost part of my adolescence. I'm looking to explore that side of my personality that never really took. But somehow, I guess, I still come off as that "nice guy to be friends with, but not to fuck". Since this service is really intended (as I've mentioned before) as a way to find sexual partners, I think it's not working for me.

Unfortunately, I don't really know any other modes. I don't know what to change to make that different. I don't think I could ever be one of those, "Hey baby. If I told you that you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?" kind of guys. I just couldn't bring myself to do that. So what, then, do I do?

On the other hand, maybe women here just think I'm too fucking old.

TheDodger8 45M

6/7/2005 8:46 am

"Nice guys finish last." No statment is more true than that. Isn't it sad? Women say they want a nice guy.... but we all know the truth. I think it is a subconscious thing.... consciously a girl wants a nice guy...but subconsciously they want a ass.. It really sucks.

I just want to be myself...but when I am, the girls just want to be friends. IF I am a bit of an asshole at time....they love me as more than a friend. Stupid life...who invented this?


rm_d0ughb0y35 50M
16 posts
6/17/2005 1:36 pm

Interesting... I'll have to think about that a bit. I'm not sure how to go about becoming a bit of an asshole. Well, that's not true. My wife thinks I'm one most of the time, but that's another matter. I guess I could get pissed off at people for no good reason on occasion. Sounds ridiculous though... <p>

So now, who are you an asshole to? The woman? Someone else in the area?<p>


rm_d0ughb0y35 50M
16 posts
6/17/2005 1:37 pm

Interesting... I'll have to think about that a bit. I'm not sure how to go about becoming a bit of an asshole. Well, that's not true. My wife thinks I'm one most of the time, but that's another matter. I guess I could get pissed off at people for no good reason on occasion. Sounds ridiculous though...

So now, who are you an asshole to? The woman? Someone else in the area?


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