Why a BBW?.............Why not a BBW?  

rm_cuml8er 55M
63 posts
5/30/2005 7:18 pm

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3/27/2006 5:21 pm

Why a BBW?.............Why not a BBW?


Well to be honest, I wasn't actually looking for anything more than some on-line friends. But it happened....I answered an add and fell in love with a BBW. Strange thing was I didn't even know what BBW stood for. After 16 wonderful months I find myself reflecting on the question so many ask, "what attracts you to BBWs"? First things first, BBW or not, all women are different and cannot be put into one basket. I can only answer the question based on my experiences with one very special lady.
1) I often tell her that she has to be bigger than average for so many reasons. She has a huge heart and capacity to love so needs a bigger body to accommodate it. I wonder if through receiving judgment about her size from media, general populous etc that she has learnt to be more accepting of others differences. Maybe knowing what it feels like to be put down she makes extra sure that she builds those around her up and makes them feel special. Whatever it is she has never criticised me and constantly makes me feel good about myself.
2) She has a huge smile. Her smile is so big her mouth alone can't handle it and she ends up smiling with her whole face, so she needs to be larger to accommodate it. It's one of those infectious smiles that warms your heart to see. I remember the first time I saw the smile in person, it took me a while to recover. I felt like a Possum caught in the headlights of a car such was the brightness of her smile.

To Be Continued.......

PureCountry64 52F

5/30/2005 8:32 pm

That is a super lucky lady to have someone to care and respect her as much as you do. Good luck with the two of you for a long life together.


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
5/30/2005 8:34 pm

rock on my friend, you honestly wrote it all down to the T (tee)


rm_MNBEAVER 51F
22 posts
5/30/2005 9:33 pm

she is a very lucky woman to have you in her life, from experience i know what its like to have a man make you feel beautiful no matter what your size is so i know you mean the world to her.... its so nice to know not everyone has to be a size three to be admired !!


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/31/2005 1:03 am

Yeppers... I agree... My Mom was wanting so desperately wanting to be thin that it was to her detriment that she broke her hip a year ago last Mother's Day..... I saw her last week and she stated that she had finally gained 2 more pounds and was now weighing 106 pounds.... I told her that she was starting to look better and could stand to weigh a little bit more.

One thing though was that she didn't say anything about my needing to lose a few pounds. It is too bad that it took her to breaking her hip that she finally sees the light.....

My now deceased husband called me his renaissance woman... I loved that. I knew he loved me for who I was ... not some perfect playboy image that looks like they could wither away quickly....

ANYHOW... great post!!


rm_cuml8er 55M
39 posts
5/31/2005 3:11 pm

Thank you all for your encouragement and comments. With 80% of the comments coming from ladies with more curvacous figures maybe this proves my theory about larger ladies having bigger hearts and capacity to love. Hang in there, I can't possibly be the only one to see your beauty. Meanwhile you have inspired me to start part two, again thank you.


patsam69 51M/51F

5/31/2005 7:48 pm

Just when I was feeling horrible about myself....thank you for brightening my outlook!


PillsburyCodeBoy 60M

6/14/2005 12:22 pm

Fantastic post. Wonderful sentiments. Best of luck to both of you. I'm looking forward to reading more.


rm_bjlover382 50F

6/16/2005 8:42 pm

she is so lucky to have you. It's great to see that someone does like bbws and that its not all that to be thin. That there are man that love bbws.


rm_cuml8er 55M
39 posts
6/27/2005 5:17 am

Patsam, glad I could help. Although sweet I have checked out your profile, you are one very sexy lady so I can't imagine why you would be feeling horrible about yourself.
bjlover I always feel it is me that's the lucky one. It still amazes me that somebody has not discovered the absolutely incredible person that she is before me. By looking beyond what convention has discarded as normal or acceptable I have found a priceless gem.
Pillsbury thank you. Have just been reading your profile, you sound like you got it pretty well sorted yourself.


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