Timing Is Everything....  

rm_cuffedmuff 51F
21 posts
4/14/2006 6:51 pm

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4/27/2006 9:37 am

Timing Is Everything....

Have you ever seen someone who could tell the same joke over and over and it was funny each time? Have you ever seen someone who had just the right words at just the right moment to sway an entire group of people? Have you ever seen a total loser come out with a total hottie's phone number or more? I firmly believe that it's all due to timing. I have seen conversations of very short comments result in a fantastic outcomes and very deep, revealing conversations end in nothing of importance. Most activities seem to have a natural rhythm to them. Of course, music and dancing have specific rhythms..but sex and conversation do as well. There's an unseen wave that rolls along as people interact. The successful folks are the ones who ride the crest while the rest are still padding out or wiping out under the force of it all. I know that I have days where I am right on top of the wave and I can "feel" it. Life is good then. Then there are those days where I know I'm out of sync with others and I try to keep to myself at those times. I am thinking that a large component of my definition of that elusive "chemistry" we all seek is the ability to match someone on that wave. It can't be forced or manipulated or coerced...either you're both on or both off. Yep, I do think that being 'off' at the same time is just as important as being 'on' at the same time. No one is going to match perfectly but recognizing the timing can mean the difference in whether or not there are any more shared experiences. Not everyone is going to want sex at the same time or in the same way....the same goes for conversation. The key to it all is knowing when to sit on the board and knowing when to hang ten.

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
4/14/2006 8:10 pm

So true.

warm xx

hardwood394 47M
13 posts
4/24/2006 7:35 pm

cuffy you are one smart lady you amaze me have never heard it put in words that way keep it up i have much to learn

rm_playbotatand 54M
7 posts
4/27/2006 6:15 am

5 , 6 , 7 , 8 ....

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