When is it fun and when is it a fetish  

rm_cpl4sin 52
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11/27/2005 8:02 am

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When is it fun and when is it a fetish

OK, so I have seemed to become obsessed with it. I think about it all the time. I fantasize about what it is like. What it WAS like and what I would like it to be like in the future.

“IT”, is the fantasy/reality of my wife with other person sexually. Initially I had fantasized about it quite frequently. In all sorts of variations. Her with a group of women, licking, fingering, strap-on, full out lesbian party. Then there was the gang-bang variety, her with a group of well hung men, no wait, extremely hung black men, no wait, 20-30 guys doing the all holes, both hands version and then performing a huge sticky bukkake party all over her face and tits!

Well, I know a lot of guys talk about it. In fact we had some friends where the guy and I used to email back and forth about what we would do with each other’s wives. Then we started talking about how great it would be to do the MFM thing. We would take turns teaming up on each other’s wives. How great it would be to video tape it all!! Well, that lead into exchange of pictures…then videos. Then finally, the girls decided that they had heard enough! They quickly put together a whole plan for an evening to satisfy their husbands.

What a night it was! A nice quiet dinner and the couples home. Plenty of wine (  ). Then the girls had us go out to the hot tub while they got “dressed”. Both came out a short while later dressed in smoking hot lingerie.

They entered the hot tub and began kissing each other. With camera’s in hand, we got some decent footage of the girls kissing and breast and nipple licking/sucking. How great they both looked with their breasts out and nipples hard.

A short while later, they each approached their own husbands. Pulling our suits off, they began giving us head. I was very excited watching the other husband and wife performing oral sex a few feet from us. Well, it only lasted a few cruel moments, but that was OK. Then they switched places!!

I could not keep my eyes off my wife. The site of his cock sliding in and out of her mouth was too much…I did all I could to keep from blowing right then and there! I was so fascinated with the whole scene, I was having trouble with the video camera. Have no fear, I did get some decent footage. To cap it all off, I got to watch him blow his load all over my wife’s chin and tits. What a fantastic sight!!

So to make a long story short, the other husband freaked out (not that night, but the next day) and we haven’t spoken to the other couple since. The bottom line is that what was once a mere fantasy, has become an obsession!! I constantly look at both the video and vid caps from that night and absolutely love the sight of my wife’s mouth full of someone else’s cock!

So the question in all this (besides just being a brain dump ‒ blog) is how many other husbands/boyfriends thought that they might like to watch their significant other with another man/woman and either freaked out when it happened, or are like me and are now obsessed??

Love to hear from you all!

kats60 56F

11/27/2005 8:33 am

i think its fucked up to want that for your wife, if you loved her , you wouldnt want to share her!!!!! sick,sick,sick! lol,,,kat

amb_lily 40F

11/27/2005 9:22 am

I don't think there is anything wrong with it if you are wanting it because you like seeing her get pleasure from it...but thats just me...

sunnyslice 56M/54F  
4 posts
11/27/2005 10:03 am

it's hot watching my woman suck off another man. i know how great she can work over a nice hard cock and drive the guy over the wall. i'm not obsessed with it, but enjoy the action whenever possible.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
11/27/2005 10:10 am


I can tell you that I love watching Sailnekkid eat and finger another woman. It makes me really hot!

We did have a similar experience to yours but it was the female who got pissed the next day about how much her husband was into me. Hmmmmmmmmmm, in this lifestyle I see no room for jealousy. I mean afterall you are going home together. Geez!!! But it does suck because we really liked being with them and they wont even call us back and the sad thing is we were friends for a long time before we ever had sex with one another. OH WELL!



sleeplessknight1 68M

11/27/2005 2:09 pm

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rm_slippy502 58M
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1/31/2006 2:20 pm

I had very mixed feelings when i first witnessed my wife with another guy, we were only 19 and had been married around a year. We had a very sexual relationship and shared reading porn mags etc, fantasies and this was mine at first but she became more interested.

The result was that i was hooked for life, although we later met some couples for swaps, the other men with her became the favourite.

After having family and when we were in late 20's the number of other men began mounting up fast. We are in the UK and mainly met the men through contact mags or introduction by contacts. She had several regular men friends some short term, some longer term and one off situations, including a friend or two. I was usually involved watching and taking my turn but sometimes i just watched or was not involved at all, just knew she was with some guy, all fantastic fun and very very erotic.

rm_just4fun2005 61M
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6/19/2006 12:38 pm

I think its hot to watch her satisfy another guy.
the most i ever got was for my wife to go out on a date and come home and tell me all the juicy details and let me see and feel the results.

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