Nice guys DO finish last  

rm_covan12 43M
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1/2/2006 3:33 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Nice guys DO finish last


CHeck this out. I am on of those guys that your mother told you about. "Baby once you find a good nice man--keep him" A gentleman is what I am. I give women the utmost respect, uncoditional love, great sex, money if needed, support on her ideas, and lastly trustworthiness. I look better in person(athletic build I go to the gym almost everyday) But yet I am on this site. Do no get me wrong ya'll are ok people in my book--but geewiz! What gives? Why is it that the men that really don't give two shakes of a rats ass what she does or says. BEats her, talks crazy to her and cheats on her all the time and asked for forgivness and does it again, or does not value her as a woman and values her ONLY for sex.
I say that the women of the U.S don't really know what they want. But a rough-neck will do fine until they get beat up or something wild. If anyone reading this knows of a good woman that is not married or has mental issues--give me a hollar.
PEACE and remain safe minded in all things you do.
Ceddy

Brainy42 52M

1/2/2006 5:04 am

I hear ya dude.

And it doesn't seem to be limited the US either. Same problem here in Canada. Here's my theory...

Practically, men hold the physical power in a relationship. Very few women have the same or greater physical strength than their partner. So I think most women try to balance this by having the emotional control in a relationship. They can’t over power us physically but they figure they can manipulate us emotionally.

Now a guy can easily express his physical domination sexually. But how do women express emotional domination? They do it by using their “feminine ways” to get men to change their behaviour. I think many women get off by being able to take a “diamond in the rough” and polishing him into a gentleman.

Of course the problem with this is twofold:

1) There’s little challenge to someone who’s already a gentleman, and therefore little attraction,
2) The idea that you can change someone else’s character is flawed.

You and I obviously suffer from number 1.

Number 2 explains why some women keep going back to men who beat them because you know deep down inside “he really loves me” right? This is the really sad part. The only person who can cause you to change your basic character is you and it requires an awful lot of effort. Very few people can do this. You have to tair down your ego and rebuild it piece by piece. This is the stuff of nervous breakdowns. That’s why habits (addictive or not), be it smoking, picking your nose or scratching your ass in public are so hard to break. Psychiatrists and Psychologists make huge amounts of money facilitating just this sort of change. It’s virtually impossible for someone else (especially those untrained in psychology) to subtly do this to you through emotional manipulation.

At least that’s what I think. Sure, you and I could probably “score” much better if we were a little less respectful of women, but then again, that requires a change in character and neither of us are about compromise our principals and do that right?

All I can suggest is keep looking for that one women who is more enlightened than the rest and when you find her, I hope to God she likes MFM cause I’ll want a piece of her too!

Best of luck dude.

And by the way, it's "zed" not "zee" eh?


kyplowboy22 61M

2/8/2006 6:34 pm

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