What's Next  

rm_couple2mi 52M/52F
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5/4/2005 2:19 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What's Next

Just starting out with the idea of meeting other couples from the stage of just talking about it. Not sure what to expect or how to proceed.

Any suggestions would be appreciated. We pretty much know what we want and do not want to do.


SweetGuy3001 59M/59F

5/15/2005 2:48 pm

After e-mailing or chatting with a likely couple, a meet for drinks or dinner would be the next logical step. Make it known up front, that this is strictly a get-to-know each other meeting with no expectation of meeting afterwards for sex......at least this first time. This lessens the tension and provides an easy out if the chemistry is not right. We are also newbies but have met several before we decided to procede. Make it known that you want to procede slowly. Those that are looking for bedpost knotches can opt out immediately. *S*

MikAnn2002 62M/61F

6/26/2005 6:48 pm

Since you are new to this and not sure where to take it, we offer this suggestion. You meet this couple for a light snack and drinks hard or soft. Everyone is getting along nicely chatting about the kids, married life, hobbies, etc. Before you know it, its time to go home. At the exit to the restaurant the couple you are visiting offer you both hugs thank you for coming out and leave. No Pressure.
Late that night there is an e-mail from them thanking you for your time and visit. And would you like to meet again sometime for a little adult playtime that involves only you and them sharing a hotel room where you only have sex with your husband but will be watched by the other couple. And that they will be willing to go first and would you mind taking pictures for them the kind you can't get by yourselves. Or maybe a video. And if you wouldn't mind would you be willing to stay close to the action as that is part of their fantasy.
When they have had their Big O, it would be your turn. Of course we could sip a little wine, beer, or coolers during our visit just to keep everyone relaxed. When the evening is over, we shower get dressed and head for our homes. Wondering if we will hear from them again.

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