Whus up w/the ladies?  

rm_cosmicgenius 49M
8 posts
9/8/2006 7:48 pm

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9/9/2006 4:05 pm

Whus up w/the ladies?

When I joined this outfit a couple of wks ago, I got a handful of positive responses from women, & a bit of e-mail exchanges went on. Then, 2 things happened, & suddenly those relations are all different. I'm just wondering why.

1) I posted pix, finally, after a friend showed me how. I was getting more 'action' sight-unseen! Then,

2) My computer went out. I wonder if I picked a virus here? Anyway, my hard-drive crashed (ouch!), & I wasn't able to post or respond or anything for a week. So, I returned yesterday, & what?

No messages were sent to me, & the e-mails I've sent out have (so far) gone unanswered! What's wrong w/my profile? My pix? Ok, so I have no shots of my dong, or even of me too much naked at all. Just hasn't happened yet. So, I'm old-fashioned & still a little shy. What else to blame?

Anyway, if there is anyone out there w/advice on the best way to get more positive responses, clothed or otherwise, please let me know. I'm new to this whole inter-net thing, not just the dating.

countryheart_71 45F
8082 posts
9/8/2006 8:14 pm

I don't see anything wrong with your pic at all.


Hydragenias 56F

9/8/2006 8:34 pm

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Mermaidslut 49F

9/8/2006 9:29 pm

    Quoting hardandneedin:
    I have the same wonderings, as well as why so willing to be in your network but not willing to chat or email? Are the majority of women out there just a tease, want to show off but afraid of actually meeting?
There are some that are collecting email addresses and promoting website traffic off this site. I believe there are also some virus that are on here, but not sure how they are transfered. Get a good firewall and virus protection that you keep updated is all I can say.

Otherwise, as new on the site you are targets for them mostly because they troll the newly signed up members for contact.

woofff 41F

9/8/2006 9:44 pm

Maybe you should change the sort of woman you're looking for?

Just my two cents.


lookingkcguy 44M
2 posts
9/9/2006 9:34 am

Simply be yourself, no matter what else is going on. If you get responses from women, be happy for it, but recognize that for women most of sex is mental. You can chat her up to a good hot and bothered state, and that is all she is after. If you are looking for a real relationship, casual or otherwise be sure that it usually will take a face to face encounter. MY advice is to get out and do the things you enjoy, and you will have a chance at meeting a woman, and you already will have something to talk about.

rm_cosmicgenius 49M

9/9/2006 4:05 pm

Ok, let me 1st say thanx to everyone who's responded so far. I appreciate all the help I can get in navigating this cyber-maze! Oh, & to woofff -- Namaste & Shukriva (sp)! That's all the Hindi I know. . .

As for Hardandneedin, it seems to me more like this is a great site for exhibitionists, if not voyuers, but a little more difficult for guys who want to just get laid more than become involved in a relationship around that package. But, I'll say more on that later. . .

For now, just let me say that I may have been a bit pre-mature in my concerns, but then again -- I did receive 2 responses now, actually (from the women I'd chatted w/2 wks ago), since I posted my pix. One of the ladies apologised for having been busy w/other stuff in life (no prob) & the other 1 said, "OMG! Don't we work together!?"

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