"That's hot!  

rm_connor696 60M
944 posts
8/27/2005 9:23 am

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"That's hot!

Ah, the language of desire. It has a few linguistic constants--sign of fertility, the ethologists tell us--and a great many culture-specific terms (nuns' habits get a lot more play in South America than in the U.S.), but each of us speaks it with his or her own accent.

Here's a portion of my list:

A woman in a long, full dress or skirt walking barefoot across a field of grass

Words of love and lust whispered in my ear while we're out with other people

A musky perfume

The sound of her heels clattering on a hard floor.

Strong hands and full lips

A witty comeback

A glimpse of cleavage as she leans toward me

A woman who throws herself into it, bucking and screaming as she takes her pleasure

Enfolding her, touching and caressing her, as she lies against me and masturbates

Lying flat on my back beneath her as she squats over me, leaning forward with her hands on my chest, and fucks me back to the eighteenth century

Watching her make up her eyes and brush her hair



What are yours?

Theflinkychick 105F

8/27/2005 6:01 pm

Big strong calloused hands

The sound of a strong strided man walking across a hard surface in cowboy boots

Being drawn under the shade of a wide brimmed cowboy hat for a long slow kiss

a strong man gently holding or talking to a child

inside jokes that no one else will ever understand but reduce the two of us to helpless laughter time and again

kissing in the rain

walking beside him and he takes my hand effortlessly and without looking as though he is so aware of me that some internal radar guided his hand

eye contact

the sound of my name on a lover's lips

an instant bright smile on the face of his face even though he is hot, tired and dirty from hard work just because he saw my face

yes, kindness and gentleness too

Not all who wander are lost.

wynterswhym 55F
51 posts
8/29/2005 6:02 am

Just a hint of a five o'clock shadow

the scent of soap on a freshly showered man

a glimsp of bare chest through a partially buttoned soft cotton shirt

hot breath in my ear as he whispers "fuck me"

His fist in my hair, pulling my head backwards, stretching my neck as he takes me from behind

the sight of a strong hand wrapped around his own cock, eyes locked to mine as he masturbates

eyes.. always eyes... that little moment when the eyes meet, right before that first forbidden kiss


wynterswhym 55F
51 posts
8/29/2005 6:04 am

and attitude. It's the attitude that always gets me

rm_rsp54 58F
531 posts
8/29/2005 3:16 pm

a serenade, poem or writing, or original work of art intended exclusively for me

a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to let me know what it is, even if it defies the meaning of macho

a good listener

a man dressed in his favorite jeans and a v-neck white tshirt

being at a very proper function and taking my man aside and quietly telling him, in very explicit detail, what I would much rather be doing

low, guttural moans as I caress his nipples

reckless abandonment during lovemaking

sleeping with someone I really want but not having sex with them

a long warm shower with plenty of bubbles and fun washing various body parts

unconditional love and respect

rm_connor696 60M
834 posts
8/30/2005 11:50 am

I don't mean to sound weird (I just can't help it), but what a gift you all have given: "a strong man gently talking to a child"; kissing in the rain"; "a glimpse of bare chest through a partially buttoned soft cotton shirt"; "anticipation"; "sleeping with someone [you] really want but not having sex with them"--sometimes I think the wider world doesn't always see what deep tenderness can lie in even the roughest, most abandoned love-making. But if they read these answers, they just might.

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