Friends, Sex, and NOT Combining Both  

rm_codismo1 50F
104 posts
10/1/2005 7:18 pm

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Friends, Sex, and NOT Combining Both

Well, as I said in my previous post, work has me extremely busy! BUT, I also am still LOVING it!. I have had to put my profile in hibernation due to all the new people coming on board at the new job. I can't risk it right now. I have made some great new friends. It's weird.... I went thru this period of really WANTING crazy hot sex all the time..... now I just want crazy hot sex with someone who I can actually be a friend with as well. Tell me, is that crazy? I don't think so! I need some alone time in the worst way! Between the job, kids, all the house responsibilities, I just have no time for ME! LOL - Soon I hope

Milan800 47M

10/1/2005 8:43 pm

wow its very funny......

Goldenhairgodess 63F
396 posts
10/1/2005 9:15 pm

Absolutely understandable. Your relationship with yourself must be nurished and maintained in order to be your best self for the other people in your life. Take care.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
10/1/2005 10:00 pm

its not crazy it is entirely understandable wanting the same thing myself and hopefully have found it


rm_alltight2me 50M
3 posts
10/3/2005 8:27 pm

I So agree, having great sex with a great friend is so much better. Sex just for sex sake can be pretty hollow. Sure doesn't feel the same as laying around laughing and snuggling afterwards.

chaz795 44M
3 posts
10/4/2005 11:01 am

I agree and would like craxy hot sex with you...

col975 49M  
326 posts
10/8/2005 11:03 am

Sex with a stranger has the perk of somtehing different. The challanges is that you would be aphrensive since you dont know what that person is brining to the mix. A stranger also has not learned the spots that make you hot. A friend will hopefully have learned those spots. And with a friend, you can laugh becuase sex is supposed to be fun (so enjoy).

Cool to hear the job is going well. That helps take stress off your life and you can find the friends to have sex with

rm_hotforwife69 42M
7 posts
10/9/2005 8:52 am

Next time I am in Colorado I would love to meet up with you.

bondra76 40M

10/12/2005 6:06 pm

I agree with you on the whole one person thing. I'm going to write a whole long story about it tonight in my blog actually. Random sex is ok and quenches some type of weird thirst I think, but sex with one person where you actually learn what each other likes and what drives them nuts and makes them feel warm inside is what the good stuff is. Good luck in finding it I'm hoping to find it as well and haven't yet

bondra76 40M

10/15/2005 8:16 pm

Codismo -

I got your response on my blog...I don't know exactly how to respond that well to blogs yet...I'm guessing if I reply to your comment in my own blog you wouldn't ever get notified? Maybe I'm wrong...I'm a rookie at all this stuff.

I honestly do not know why I'm not taken yet...I am interested in learning more about you should write to me sometime if you're able to...I think you're in my network also there's a photo with some ways to contact me in there.

bondra76 40M

10/15/2005 9:12 pm

Codismo - actually damnit..I take it back I can't show you my info cause your profile is turned off Invite me to your friends network if possible!!

love_to_ladies 56M
2 posts
10/18/2005 12:32 am

No it is not crazy. 90% conversation and 10% mmmm

fun4one1971 46M
3 posts
1/3/2006 10:16 pm

I believe your post is great! Even though its an old post, I like meet and greets! I believe that meeting & getting to know people is better than jumping into the sheets first. My wife and I do like meeting up to meet new friends and possibly friends W/ benefits if the situation was confortable enough for all.

rm_deuce1963222 53M
77 posts
1/22/2006 9:17 pm

You are absolutely right,sex with a friend is soo nice.You feel so comfortable and gives a relaxed feeling.You can talk before and after about anything

mdk_7691 49M

6/29/2009 2:43 pm

FWB? You deserve more than that. Don't sell yourself short.
A real man would find the time, including between the sheets, to RESPECT and treat you like the woman you deserve to be. Your want would be his desire. Amen!

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