When you just look at your girlfriend and say...  

rm_cockmerollme 45F
1607 posts
6/4/2006 9:07 am

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6/6/2006 11:47 pm

When you just look at your girlfriend and say...

"What the fuck"?!?!?!

At a party last night, I had a girlfriend of mine tell me, during a great conversation about good laying techniques,that she loves to be choked.

Choked! Whist being fucked!

Even I can't get in on that.

And I love a strong, confident man in the bedroom too. I dig being held down, and wrestling, and spanking, and maybe a little hair pulling, but..it's all with a kind hand.

I can't wear tee shirts because I don't want anything tight on my neck. Every t I have is sliced up round the neck.

Is choking that great? What's the payoff?

When my ass gets warmed by a firm hand, I feel it during the sex and after. That's the payoff there.


MartinMartini 37M
131 posts
6/4/2006 12:41 pm

i think it might have something to do with trust but not completely sure

dreamkitty63 47F

6/4/2006 1:45 pm

Some say it intensifies the orgasmn, i dont think i'd be willing to go that far to find out. A good hard crack on the ass is quite enough stimulation for me, tyvm LOL.

rm_JCeaser 46M
25 posts
6/4/2006 3:12 pm

I've heard of this. Actually knew a girl that did it.
Some people get off on it. Generally people that like to be totally dominated and forced. Hard core people.

To me it's always seemed like the kind of thing someone has to have excellent self control to be able to do without going to far.

jlooking540 45M

6/4/2006 5:58 pm

Cutting the blood off to the brain during sex can supposedly
increase the feeling in some people. Of course it should go without saying ANYTHING CUTTING OFF THE BLOOD TO THE BRAIN IS VERY DANGEROUS.
Lots of people DIE because they try to do it alone with a
cord while masturbating and die because they pass out before
they can releast the cord.

I've also heard that repeated "use" can damage the throat's
airway or blood vessels ( not sure which ) and cause then to
be vulnerable to collapse at what would normally be light choking.
(but that info was from a movie so it might not be accurate ).
I *think* it featured in the movie version of "The Rising Sun".
(crime thriller, love story, japan-american international relations ).

It's very, very dangerous. The possibliity of killing or causing brain damage type of dangerous. Please don't do it, we need our beav updates.

jlooking540 45M

6/4/2006 6:31 pm

But the talk about spanking and hair pulling, oh my! I'm going to have to go think of something else! I need to rain-x my car. Yeah, gotta do that.

What's a guy gotta do to get your attention?

rm_cockmerollme 45F
1223 posts
6/5/2006 2:47 am

Thank you. I know.


skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
6/6/2006 2:07 pm

_____I only been with two women who wanted to be choked. I enjoyed doing it becuase they wanted me to. It's a trust thing. It's not all that hard to pay enough attention to know when to release my grip. It's not about killing. It's about intensifying the pleasure. It does seem to make the orgasms stronger, and perhaps more frequent.

rm_cockmerollme 45F
1223 posts
6/6/2006 5:54 pm

I'm not convinced...i just can't envision the thrill...I guess I'm just old fashioned that way...


rm_fetishanu 36M
3 posts
6/6/2006 9:57 pm

Hmmmm I have never been asked to do it and i don't think would comply. It really is just plain dangerous. Like you said before, theres nothing wrong with a little spanking, or some good back scratching of which i enjoy to a certain extent but i think this would be a line I wouldn't cross.

skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
6/6/2006 11:05 pm

_____I wasn't trying to convince you. You are who you are. You like what you like. No need to explore if you're happy. I didn't know I liked spanking a woman until I was with a woman who enjoyed it. Funny what we discover on our journey.

rm_cockmerollme 45F
1223 posts
6/6/2006 11:47 pm

True that.


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