Take the hint and walk away with pride!  

AzoteHalvaCones 37M
2 posts
3/11/2006 11:20 pm

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3/13/2006 9:47 pm

Take the hint and walk away with pride!

I want to discuss what I call, "The Kiss of Death" in a relationship. Here's the scenario: You meet a single girl that you're absolutely crazy about. Everything is going ok the first few dates and you are on cloud nine. Then she starts acting cold towards you and seems distant.

You are confused and can't figure out for the life of you what has gone wrong. You were hitting it off so well, you both laughed and had good times together, and the sex was fantastic.
Then all of a sudden she tells you that she wants to cool it for awhile. In other words she wants to stop seeing you for awhile. You ask her why and she replies, "I need some space."
This answer is what I was referring to as, "The Kiss of Death" in a relationship. What she is really trying to say is she does not want to date you anymore. It's just her way of saying it's over and she does not want to be tied down to a relationship.

So, when a woman tells you that she needs space just let her go. Do you really want to be someone who doesn't want to be with you? Just move on, get over it and get on with your life. Perhaps it was just not meant to be. She may try to come back into your life later on, but for now just let her have her space. If you want to get back with her later on then that's your option.

This same scenario has happened to me a few times in my dating experiences. It happens to a lot of guys and you just have to deal with it. Chalk it up to as part of the dating game. You win some and you lose some.

In closing, keep in mind that some single women are afraid of commitment and they end relationships that are getting to close by saying that they need their space and want to stop seeing you.

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
3/12/2006 1:06 am

~ smilez ~ and it's not just women who have this ....

welcome to blogging

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
3/12/2006 9:05 am

I couldnt agree more its a sign to leave me the hell alone when we say this!

Purry {=}


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