Would you...???  

rm_cjcj9 41F
745 posts
2/5/2006 4:56 pm

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Would you...???

Would you ever do something completely "crazy", completely out of character, completely taking a chance? I was just reading my blog My happy book and someone said something about I'm ready when you are. It started me thinking....would you? Would you just go meet a stranger in a strange place, foreign land, etc. Would you take that chance with a stranger? Or, would there be something else out of character that you would consider. Something that would shock people who knew you....

fsuliber 42M

2/6/2006 5:19 am

My presence and everything I have done because of it defines that! "Would you just go meet a stranger in a strange place, foreign land, etc. Would you take that chance with a stranger?"...been there and done that. It wasn't a foreign land, but you know with who and where. I enjoyed every second of it and can't wait for the next time.

If you do decide to just go meet a stranger, please be careful!!!

rm_talktame44 56M
63 posts
2/6/2006 5:26 am

would I? Depends.....define stranger....I've met people I don't know....technically a stranger....but there was insight gained thru some corrospondence. Is that out of character for me? To a degree perhaps. But my curiosity has always pushed me in directions I'd think not really "in character" for me. I much more open minded these days. Nvere say never didn't mean much at one time but now?.....what cha got in mind?

MillsShipsGayly 51M

2/6/2006 6:45 am

Crazy? ...Yes
Stupid? ..No

Mind if I ask why you chose that pic for this post?

fsuliber 42M

2/6/2006 7:49 am

Sorry...that should read "My presence ON HERE"...lol

rm_bluedog4791 42M
74 posts
2/6/2006 1:52 pm

I honestly have to say I am not sure. It would really depend on the circumstances. Locally - probably, foreign country - doubtful, actually no. I think the people I know would likely not be shocked by much that I do, as I have a rather high tolerence for risk. That said, I make only calculated choices therefore my ambiguous statement that it really depends on the situation.

rm_JohnMacLaine 50M
585 posts
2/6/2006 5:20 pm

A stranger? no, I am more cautious than that. I would have to know a few things about the person before I decide I would meet in person. I explained just such a situation in my blog just the other day. I waited six months before deciding to meet her, and then only after I had talked to her almost daily either through the internet or on the phone. There are a lot of crazy people out there, and you HAVE to be careful. Not saying what is best for me is best for everyone, just my choice. I have since gone to social gatherings with people from this site, but only in a public place and only with several other people there. I have never just gone and met someone out of the blue, but it is not to say that I wouldnot do it in the future, since you cant predict what will happen down the road.

I have done a few crazy things in my life, and more than likely I will do a few mjore before I am gone...


"I can retain neither respect or affection for a government which has been moving from wrong to wrong in order to defend its own immorality" Mahatma Ghandi

MyRealLoverOne 46M

2/6/2006 5:40 pm

LOL..I have done many crazy things and many stupid things....Why stop now???

ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
2/6/2006 5:49 pm

i wish i had such nerve, but i would have to know the person, could't go to another locale or country with someone i did not know at all. sounds fun though. . . .

Plano69 54M

2/7/2006 6:23 am


rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/9/2006 3:44 pm

fsu...I would be very careful if I ever decided to do something like that!! But, the "danger" would be half the fun!!

rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/9/2006 3:49 pm

talk...just talking about seeing someone and being swept away by them and taking that chance...I can't really verbalize it, but here would be an example...something really out of character...say someone emailed you here at AdultFriendFinder and sent beautiful pictures, said all the right things, and at the end of the letter said, "meet me at the pier at 10"....would you go? Not someone that you have been corresponding with for months...a pure stranger...or, would you meet someone driving on the road and go home with them if they rolled their window down and asked? That kind of taking a chance.....

rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/9/2006 3:52 pm

Michael....I can't explain why...wasn't quite sure what went along with my topic...my only explanation is I was looking for something to go with the stranger aspect and I thought masks...that is the one that came up when I goggled masks that I liked...maybe that makes more sense...

rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/9/2006 3:53 pm

blue...yes, I would agree it would depend on the circumstances!! But, it is still fun to think about!!

rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/9/2006 3:56 pm

John...yes, today you really have to be cautious. I won't go into the stupid things that I have done that could have had really bad repercussions, but I have grown wiser with age. But, I also think with that I have lost a lot of excitement I derived from those walks on the wild side. But, I guess it is part of growing, but it is still fun to think what if.....

rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/9/2006 3:59 pm

MyLover....you inspired me to write this because of your post on my happybook....It caused my mind to wander and think what if he were serious and we made a plan to go and meet in Asheville never having met or spoke but in this forum... what can I say....I'm a daydreamer ....maybe, one day I will tell you what happened once we got there

rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/9/2006 4:02 pm

Snatch....it is just too bad that there are so many crazy people to watch out for because I think it would be damn fun to throw caution to the wind and take that high of a risk....what is wrong with the world when I can't hop on a plane bound for Switzerland to meet a stranger who is going to take me......ok, back to reality...

rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/9/2006 4:04 pm

I'll lay it on the table here Plano....anytime you want to come to Tampa and meet a stranger just let me know!!!! You have an open invitation to this stranger any time you want to change that maybe to a yes!

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