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rm_cjcj9 41F
745 posts
2/28/2006 5:16 am

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Now....

Tell me two things about you and you can ask to know something about me....


AltumHunksUnite 53M

2/28/2006 6:32 am

My grandparents danced in a lot of old musicals, many of them with Betty Grable, and a few soundies.

I don't have wisdom teeth.

Okay... your turn... exactly what prompted you to join this site? And what makes you stay?

Let me drive. I like the view


MillsShipsGayly 51M

2/28/2006 7:10 am

Here is a 100 [post 89009]

You have been on AdultFriendFinder's merry go-round for awhile, are you looking for the same thing now you may have been looking for in the beginning?


a_poetman 45M

2/28/2006 7:20 am

1. I love to cook...

2. My favorite food is Sushi...

My question for you...

If there was one chivarlous thing a man could do to win your heart over, what would it be?


fsuliber 42M

2/28/2006 9:21 am

1. I hate attention

2. I enjoy your blog...lol

Q Other than your PP experience that we all know about, how many people have you met from this site?


fsuliber 42M

2/28/2006 10:46 am

ok...ok...my #2 was a cop-out as to, well not bring attention to myself. So how about this as a replacement #2: I own over 250 ties


rm_talktame44 56M
63 posts
2/28/2006 12:32 pm

time for summer re-runs already? Thsi blog entry has a Deja Vu quality about it.....hmmmmm....ah....what the hell....

1. I have a very artistic , creative side to me....that most people never see.

2. I love to build. There is literally not one aspect of the home building process that I can't do.

and now I get a question....hmmmm....what to ask? Last time I asked what CJ stood for.....didn't get an answer so I'll not waste this question on that.....and since everyone wants to know how to win the attention of the fair CJ.....I won't ask that either.
I want to know Cj.....what is you're biggest fear? both physically and emotionally. Hope that doesn't count as two......


rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/28/2006 3:42 pm

Cleavis!!! That is really cool about your grandparents! That would be so neat to listen to their stories! To answer your question, I joined this site out of curiosity. I wanted to see what it was about. I didn't know if or what I was looking for by joining, but like you, I found TASA and got hooked on that and then the stupidity of a lot of the replies I receive is a form of entertainment. I come and go with hopes that I will discover and find what I am looking for.


rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/28/2006 3:50 pm

Michael....Very informative!! I LOVE LITERATI!!! I didn't think anyone else played and all of my friends have left me!!! They didn't like that I kicked their asses!!! I'll challenge the ivy leaguer to a game one day!!

To answer your question...as I said to Cleavis, I didn't know what I was looking for then and still am not sure what I am looking for now. It would be easy to say that I am looking for a skilled lover, but I seek more than that. I don't want the love/romantic connection, either. I want something in between. I guess a friend with benefits type but with an emphasis on friend. All too often it turns into straight sex minus the friend part. So, to actually answer your questions, I am getting closer to deciphering why I am here so in that way I have evolved !


rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/28/2006 3:55 pm

Poet...I am not a firm believer in chivalry. But, I am not one of those people that feels chivalry is dead. Does that make sense? I enjoy the simple chivalrous acts. The one man that I have cared most about in my life did something that has always stayed with me. I am not so sure it was what he did as it was the deeper thought that went with it. I have never met anyone else that did this and it will sound corny, but I will tell anyways...when he and I would walk down the street, he would walk closest to the street. Does that count?


rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/28/2006 3:57 pm

DAMN FSU! 250 ties!! I would love to see that collection...hmmmmm...what could one do with all those ties ! To answer your question, I have met 3! But, my lipa are sealed about who they are!


rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/28/2006 4:03 pm

Talk...my biggest fear, aside from the one that stems from being a mom and losing a child, is drowning. I have a severe fear of drowning, but not a usual fear. I fear that I will be locked in a box, crate, or other type of container and be thrown into the water. I have no idea where this fear came from. Emotionally, I'm not sure what that would be...does the drowning part count?

Talk...I love this type of post because it forces you to tell me something about you and ask about something that you would like to know about me. It is a good way to interact and keeps it interesting!! If I could, I would post this type of post every day because I love hearing about you and other people as opposed to is always being about me.


fsuliber 42M

2/28/2006 5:17 pm

"he would walk closest to the street"...it absolutely counts!!!! I do this all the time, I think 99.9% of the ladies I walk with don't recognize this. A ladies safety is something I'm always concerned about.


fsuliber 42M

2/28/2006 7:25 pm

cj...you know what the biggest crime about those ties is? I don't wear them very often. They are just sitting in my closet, waiting to be used (or perhaps in your case abused).


a_poetman 45M

2/28/2006 11:37 pm

cj, it counts...

so many things us guys think go un-noticed! Thanks for the honesty!


rm_talktame44 56M
63 posts
3/1/2006 8:51 am

Interesting CJ....I think some of the dream interpretation could be used here.....with the box and then the water. I could guess the box might have something to do with control or confinement....real or imagined....the water? I'm not sure other than being out of you're element. But....things to ponder for those smarter than I.

Emotionally may not have been good way to phrase that. Physcologically might have been better( spelling?) Being locked in a box and thrown overboard is very specific....guess I was thinking along the lines of "....that I won't find love and die alone" or " My kids will one day dis-own me" damn.....that's depressing.....
Hmmmm....

I have to agree with you though......these questions provoke thought and interaction. Ya know....I'd take a quiet spot....good company and good converation anyday. Now I'm not saying I don't like the physical interaction.....but those discoveries....ideas.....that's powerful. To sit and talk and know that you're actually being heard? To freely communicate is so stimulating. The exchage of thoughts and ideas without complication of judgement.....I agree....

But I don't think I'm forced......these questions I'd ask anyways. I'm very inquistive

One more question comes to mind......and it presented itself as I read this blog thread......you mentioned that you've met 3 men from this site.....men are very competetive.....do you think that some might be thinking...." She met them but not me.....what's wrong with me?" Since, The male ego can be fragile thing.....I wonder.

For me personally, I'd love to sit and talk with you some day.....but it's not for the chance to develop something sexual in nature. I'm sure you're a very beautiful woman physically.....though a subjective thing in general..... I'm sure that you are. But more important and compelling to me is the person that has emerged through this blog and entries you've written on other message boards.
I see an intelligent, well grounded person. I see compassion. I see opinion that's well articulated. I see a flirt. I see honesty and unequivical love of you're children. I see a great many traits and aspects of you're character that I try to intergrate and emulate in my life as well. Those things make you a person I'd like to know.

and if one day you had to release some sexual tension.....ahhh...ya could probably twist my arm a little and I'd help out. Hell....that's what friends are for , right?


fsuliber 42M

3/1/2006 11:01 am

"do you think that some might be thinking....' She met them but not me.....what's wrong with me?' Since, The male ego can be fragile thing.....I wonder". hmmmm, I know someone with that type of personality

I would like to know, but I wouldn't really say it is a fragile ego thing, but more along the lines of how I can improve myself (not only here but in life in general). For example, I'm pretty self-conscience of my looks. But I now know that is a huge turn off, so I do my best not to display this flaw.


rm_bluedog4791 42M
74 posts
3/2/2006 8:27 am

Two things huh?
1. Love to cook
2. My favorite tv shows are Family Guy and 24.

I am sorry if those are weak, I just had a brain freeze on this quesiton.

Are you a verbal person or a math person?


rm_bluedog4791 42M
74 posts
3/2/2006 8:29 am

Also, a note on the chivalry comments going. It is just like the seen in Singles where the girl didn't reach over and unlock the door of his car when he had let her in. Same idea going the other direction. There are just things people do for us that you notice and makes you know they get it. Guess that is not a good test anymore though since auto locks are standard on most cars, lol.


fsuliber 42M

3/2/2006 9:50 am

Blue...I have not gone on second dates because she didn't unlock my door. ok,ok, shallow Seinfeld thing probably. You are right, keyless entry has made that a lost test.


MillsShipsGayly 51M

3/6/2006 5:50 am

Want to play LITERATI on website?

I let my gold membership expire, so you can email me at this same name at the Ysmiley face network. I'll play ya ... would be fun and you won't be kicking this ass !


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