Circle of Friends  

rm_cjcj9 41F
745 posts
6/6/2006 3:24 pm

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Circle of Friends

Have you ever been overtly attracted to someone in your circle of friends? Your husband's friend? Your wife's friend? Recently, I have found myself taken with a man my husband is friends with. I would NEVER act on this! But, I find it intriguing. I sometimes catch him looking my way. I wonder if he could be attracted to me, too. I wonder if it is the extra attention he seems to pay to me that makes me think about this. Then I think to myself that he is a physically attractive man and that is why I think about him. I think in our circle I am not the only wife who finds him attractive. Does this happen to you?

rm_ChiRugger 43M

6/6/2006 4:58 pm

I have a friends who are married. They are people who I met separately from each other, and the met on there own. I've known them for about the same amount of time, and I am very close with both of them. I for some reason am so totally attracted to her. I always have been. I feel so guilty for that. When she tells me of her marital problems I secretly root for a marriage failure. I love them both, and I feel like Brutus.

rm_bluedog4791 42M
74 posts
6/6/2006 7:06 pm

I have definitely had this happen and would be surprised if most people say that they haven't. My wife has a friend who is a tall, blonde beautiful woman (who is also hving marital problems). I would also NEVER act. There is a rule of degrees of separation that just can't be violated without the worst consequences. I can't say I have been the best at keeping to the rule in my life, but it is something to always bear in mind when you make a decision. Anyway, glad to "see" you again CJ!

rm_tommyv692005 47M
23 posts
6/7/2006 7:37 pm

This has happened to me twice. The first was purely an "animal attraction" to an old friends girl-friend(he later married her) but thats all it was. She was a 9.5 in the looks dept but a 2 in personality. Tha other was a much deeper attraction and MUCH harder to stay away from. But there are some lines that shouldnt be crossed. But OH the late night fantasies lol

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