Oral sex = turnon= problem  

rm_chislut 42F
1534 posts
9/7/2006 8:04 pm

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Oral sex = turnon= problem


So, I think it's pretty clear that I get really turned on sucking cock. And having my mouth filled with cum.

And therein lies the problem.

See, I give a guy a blowjob. I get REALLY turned on doing so. He cums.

He's done. I'm turned on. Usually wanting to be fucked.

See the problem? I mean, it's not like this is making my life miserable. I don't spend hours worrying about it. It's just kind of annoying at times.

I did give head once to a guy while I was lying on my back and he was kneeling over me, one leg on each side of me. Then, when finished, he kind of sat on my chest, below my breasts, and played with my nipples until I came. THAT was nice.

Ah... pleasant thought to send myself off to sleep with.

rm_aranayd 46M
2014 posts
9/7/2006 8:29 pm

What you need is a guy who gets as turned on by oral as you do. That way you can make him cum, and when he returns the favor, the excitement gets him hard again. Then the real fun can begin. Look for him, he's out there.


rm_chislut replies on 9/8/2006 10:39 pm:
Actually, maybe that's part of the problem. I have an ex who was like that and it was perfect. Sigh.

SweetLoadInKC 45M

9/7/2006 8:37 pm

What seems to satisfy my lady is to let her suck me until she is good and wet. Then I flip her over, fuck her until I'm just about to cum, pull out and cum in her mouth. She loves the mixed juices.

Then before I go soft I go back to fucking her until she cums. If I do go soft (hey... it happens), I'll just finger her and lick her tits until she explodes.

Good times.

If you need an example or some "hands on" instructions, I'll be happy to assist.


rm_chislut replies on 9/8/2006 10:40 pm:
LOL! Yeah, that would work, too. I'll keep your offer in mind. Thanks.

ZZ_Todd 59M

9/7/2006 8:41 pm

I can see how that would be a problem; I mean, yeah, when we cum it takes awhile to get going for another load. For me it's an even bigger problem, well, maybe not problem, per se... kind of embarrassment, actually. Um... (jeeze, can't believe I'm admitting this!)... I haven't too many blow-jobs (in fact, I'm really not that crazy about getting one--preferring the 'tis better to give than receive philosophy) but of all the bj's I've ever had, I've never had an orgasm like that. Weird, huh?


rm_chislut replies on 9/8/2006 10:41 pm:
You're just trying to challenge me, aren't you?

I don't think that's that weird, actually. I've at least heard that from various guys before. Just, you know, FYI.

absolutelynormal 56F
6563 posts
9/7/2006 9:52 pm

69?????


rm_chislut replies on 9/8/2006 10:46 pm:
Theoretically a good idea, but I'm *really* bad at multitasking!

mixednuts5920 61M
18 posts
9/8/2006 4:08 am

I agree with absolute - you 69 until you get hard then turn around. you get the bonus of kissing your girl with the taste of cum!


XJackinyourBoxX 42M

9/8/2006 7:27 am

Ah, the age-old dilemma.
Try all the above recommendations and see what works best. At the very least, it's a good time

Second option...
Find a guy with more stamina.


rm_chislut replies on 9/8/2006 10:51 pm:
LOL! I love the way your mind works.

Good idea. I'll have to try all of the above just to be objectively scientific and report back here on my findings.

rm_0QQ0 46M
7 posts
9/8/2006 9:55 am

what if the guy didnt cum the whole time you sucked his cock and then he fucked you really good and then came in your mouth after


rm_chislut replies on 9/8/2006 10:52 pm:
I *think* that would probably work. Do guys have quite that much control over when exactly they cum?

Dammit. All this talk of sucking and fucking and cum is getting me horny.

Or maybe it's cuz I'm tipsy. Whichever.

wantsawoman2k 34M
64 posts
9/8/2006 1:17 pm

wow, wish I knew you in person


TriggerJinxed 38M

9/8/2006 5:55 pm

The more the merrier.


rm_Jackie81 35F
7 posts
9/9/2006 12:08 am

I find giving oral is a big turn on for me too. What works for me it to play with myself while I suck his cock. When I get to the point I'm going to cum it gets hard to do both, so I let him take over and just fuck my mouth while I make myself cum. If he cums first it always sets me off and I'm cumming by the time he is done anyway. It work well for me.

Jackie


rm_chislut replies on 9/12/2006 7:58 pm:
Not a bad idea, though usually both of my hands are otherwise occupied and unavailable for myself during oral...

johnlicksgood 45M
11 posts
9/9/2006 5:57 am

Yeah... I love to give a woman oral after I get oral. By the time I'm done giving her oral, I'm rock hard again and we get to play some more.


Wordsmith2004 36M
7233 posts
9/9/2006 12:38 pm

So, I think it's pretty clear that I get really turned on sucking cock. And having my mouth filled with cum.

And therein lies the problem.


Yeah, I can see how that'd be a problem, 'cuz you know how us guys are always wanting COMMITMENT before ya suck the cock, and to know where the relationship is going, cuddle after sex, havin' kids, not being loved JUST for their cocks....yaknow the usual drill

He's done. I'm turned on. Usually wanting to be fucked.

Hmmm turned on= fucking so THAT'S HOW YOU DO IT...and here I thought ya jus' had to play the geetar on the M-Tee veee! lol

Ah... pleasant thought to send myself off to sleep with.

Ah yess...but now I'M TURNED ON...

you see the problem?



Conserve Water and Prevent Global Warming: Shower With A MILF!


TriggerJinxed 38M

9/9/2006 5:48 pm

    Quoting rm_Jackie81:
    I find giving oral is a big turn on for me too. What works for me it to play with myself while I suck his cock. When I get to the point I'm going to cum it gets hard to do both, so I let him take over and just fuck my mouth while I make myself cum. If he cums first it always sets me off and I'm cumming by the time he is done anyway. It work well for me.

    Jackie
Screw it, I'm moving to Illinois.


cobra70118 105M

9/10/2006 8:34 pm

silly girl... oral sex= turn on= turn on= no problems

your math teacher didn't have the equation correct


rm_chislut replies on 9/12/2006 8:01 pm:
turnon + (-gettingoff) = problem

turnon + cumminghard != problem

Better?


JadeLondon 48M/30F

9/12/2006 2:48 pm

Yeah... my multitasking abilities (or lack thereof) make it hard to give head and worry about my throbbing pussy simultaneously. Sometimes I'll straddles his thigh and grind on his leg while I'm sucking him off. A lot of times, he'll stop me before he cums and give me the fucking I need. But really...the joy and satisfaction comes from getting him off all by myself, without him having to do any work...just lay there and enjoy it. While I don't have the problem of not liking to receive oral, I admit that it's NOT what I'm looking for with a post-BJ-pulsating-pussy. It is a quandary. Of all the solutions people have suggested, none really satisfy me.


rm_chislut replies on 9/12/2006 8:06 pm:
I can't believe I'd forgotten about that! I used to grind against the thigh of an ex when giving him head. It was totally perfect. How the hell did I *forget* about that?

Thank you JadeLondon for providing the answer to what I thought was a rhetorical question!

Well, ok, having at least two guys around is another good answer, but not always as practical.

rm_ACnMsCristy 43M/38F
5 posts
9/13/2006 4:56 pm

Agree with the first poster. Order is necessary:

1) Some foreplay
2) You give him oral
3) He gives you oral
4) It's time to fuck!

Life is about order ... or disorder, whichever you prefer.

Adam


cobra70118 105M

9/15/2006 11:22 am

turnon + (-gettingoff) = problem

turnon + cumminghard != problem

Better?



Still incorrect! $-0

oral sex = turn on = turn on = 8 to 1 woman to guy orgasims

GET A DIFFERENT GUY!


rm_cpl4cpl1313 52M/56F
1 post
9/17/2006 11:14 am

How about this for a variation/solution?

Seek out a couple (such as ourselves) where you can fulfill your desire for a big cock in your mouth filling it, in due course, with a substantial load of cum. As you get "horned-up" from the above; imagine the female half of the couple pounding away on your pussy equipped with a hearty strap-on.

Of course, before during an after you will have to be properly prepared -- verbally coached and perhaps "handled" as appropriate to ensure that we all perform to the utmost of our joint potential.


rm_Joe1020 53M

9/17/2006 4:38 pm

I had a wonderful partner who could sense just the right time before I would come and force herself down to where I was locked in her throat and would stay motionless and just let her throat expand and contract to finish my orgasm. It was more intense yet did not create that over sensitivity that the finishing strokes of most blow jobs leave us males with, but always left me hard to attend to her needs. It was so good for both of us and I get hard everytime I think about it!


rm_simo_moho 36M

10/14/2006 10:48 pm

hey i hated that storm in chicago that day ..iam glad i didn't lose electricity though .. about the .. when you suk the cock & he is done ..which suks coz you want it then.. i don't let a girl make me cum first.. i give her hers .. coz it takes longer .. then i fuk all i want .. then .. i take 2 min break & hit more .. & more .. love it ..

simo_moho @ yahoo.. hit me


NEThingGoes1968 48M
3 posts
3/12/2007 3:54 pm

I have a possible solution as I was in this situation once before. First thing is to have plenty of toys on hand (battery operated). The second and most important is to be chemically enhanced (Cialis is best) you stay hard after you cum and then you can satisfy both inside and out.


rm_dnj1969 47M

4/2/2007 4:49 pm

Well you could suck a guys cock while another one fucks you until you cum...then he could cum in your mouth too! Just a thought!


jm4fun76 40M

4/10/2007 11:59 pm

I'm trying to find the problem. It doesn't take that long to get hard again. Like what, maybe a minute? Perfect timing to return the favor and play with you a little before fucking you.


bipolybabe 54F

4/14/2007 8:48 am

Sounds like you're a gal who could use TWO guys either at once or one right after another.

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funluveranytime 61M

7/6/2008 8:58 am

we always do a 69 and when my luver gets her orgasm,then it is my turn to use my hard one to ram vigorously into her cunt.


pnorthchicago 42M
1 post
2/18/2009 4:04 pm

Well I can promice you, my beautiful friend, that if I came in your mouth and you then jumped up on my face for a hot 69 you could keep sucking it because it would NOT go down! And if you spread those beautiful legs for me, I would get even HARDER then before.
And I'm willing to leave a 100% guarantee on that one!


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