Don't even feel like creating a title.  

rm_chislut 42F
1534 posts
6/5/2006 6:31 pm

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Don't even feel like creating a title.

I'm sad. Crushed actually. Crushed.

I'd had really high hopes for something that just fell through. I feel like all the air's been let out of me.

I haven't read enough of the blogs to know for sure, but I think this feeling of getting burnt out after about 4 months is pretty routine.

So, the feeling of just having too much of this site for a while PLUS just having my hopes kind of crushed

means I'm taking a break.

I have forty something not even read emails in my inbox. And others I've read and whose writers are waiting for responses.

I need a break. You know how it feels to get your hopes up about something and then when it falls apart it's hard to still feel excited about anything else? That's how I am right now.

I apologize if this is kind of cryptic. I don't have anyone I can explain this recent disappointment to. Not anyone who would understand it anyway. So, I needed to be able to write this much. Even if it doesn't make sense to anyone reading it.

Crushed. Disappointed. Slowly turning into anger. Eventually. Then I'll forget it.

timberwolf6972 44M

6/5/2006 6:46 pm

Take a break if you need to. Everyone needs a break from time to time. I just started blogging again.

Djeeper1987 47M

6/5/2006 6:55 pm

Sorry your disappointed. Someone better will turn up for ya.

Carpe Diem

rm_kid909 40M

6/5/2006 7:23 pm

Disappointment sucks! I'm so sorry to read that things aren't going well. Take it easy for as long as you need to. Sometimes life can be a real bitch ... but it never stays that way.

2hard2betrue 42M

6/5/2006 10:02 pm

I'm starting to feel the same way and I've only been on AdultFriendFinder for a couple months. I see the same pics, the same profiles over and over again... it's losing its excitement.

cheddarguy60 56M
50 posts
6/6/2006 4:05 am

Hang in there.

I'm generally up-beat, but now and again it seems like the forces of nature conspire to make one feel very small and out of control of anything in your life.

It'll pass. Easy to say, but tough to wait till it does.

goodguysneedit2 56M

6/6/2006 4:51 am

Not sure what or whom you are speaking of... but you are not unique in feeling what you are feeling about the site and being overloaded with emotions...or simply burnt-out.

Take the break... your emotions are trying to tell ya something and sometimes it takes a while to figure out what the hell it is.

-hugs to ya-


rm_onlineparty 33M
23 posts
6/6/2006 7:19 am

Like alot of people have said, there are times when you just need a break from things, and to step aside for awhile. Take the time relax and take it from there, like my mom use to all ways tell me, Time is the best way to heal, and somethimes thing can only be healed by time , hope everything goes good for you and will all wait for you to feel like you want to blog again

dorkyhandle71 45M
2 posts
6/6/2006 6:00 pm

I was just starting to get a bit addicted to your blogging on here. Plus getting some insight as well. Sorry you were disappointed.

gentile_sadico 52M
1368 posts
6/6/2006 7:10 pm

sorry to hear that, but we all have highs and lows.....i'm sure in time something better will come along, especially for someone as cute as you...

AGNJoe1 47M

6/6/2006 8:38 pm


I know just how you feel. I just got back taking a break because I've been looking for someone to help me satisfy my cravings and no one wants to participate.

I was hoping you might, but I've yet to hear from you.

I saw you stopped by to check out my blog, and I apologize for not having anything for you to read lately. Maybe you'll stop by again, and give me a second chance? I'd love to hear from you.


FineButLonely2 42M

6/7/2006 9:39 am

You're not the only one who's upset about this.I don't know if you're dissappointed because of some in particular or if you don't like this site period.
Me, I' not too happy about my experience on this site. I just joined to have some No-Strings-Attached-Sex and it seems like everyone on here just wants to do it cyberstyle or get to know each other first. Don't get me wron you have to know a few important details:

1. Are they disease free?

2. Are they attractive?

3.When and where to meet so you can fuck?

Nothing else is important, unless agreed upon from the beginning.

cldf1 48M  
23 posts
6/7/2006 11:44 am

Fuck you
come suck my dick

ooohProfessor 44M

6/7/2006 2:31 pm

Hey chi,

Nice to "meet" you, well I feel like I know you a bit after reading your blogs - yes, my dear, you are a bit verbose But I dig it, and you seem like an extremely interesting and sexy woman. Hopefully we can get to know each other better when and if you decide to come back.

I totally understand where you are coming from. I, myself, am just returning from a break from AdultFriendFinder - and blogging especially. I'm still not sure I'm back, but I certainly enjoyed reading your thoughts. Take care of yourself, and I hope you find what your looking for.

Kisses, Rick

Discreet2enjoy 45M
30 posts
6/9/2006 8:34 am

Hope you get over your BLUES soon! Your more than welcome to drop a couple of lines if you have the need to!

ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/14/2006 7:00 am

I truly believe this is an issue we all probably experience at some point or another Chislut. It does not necessarily mean burnout but can hint at just go read others and stimulate your mind and let your posting side take a day or 2 off. Given the fact that you shared this thought just goes to show even the best are vulnerable to waves of uncertainty and blogger's block. Don't give up, I, for one would be disappointed not to be able to come visit your blog and be stimulated.*Hugs*

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