for the non-commenters(not a bitch session)  

rm_chanda69 47F
648 posts
6/8/2006 8:37 pm

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for the non-commenters(not a bitch session)

just in case those of you that visit & read, but don't comment , didn't know, when you comment, it makes it easier to read your profile & more importantly, your blog, & comments. i usually check out the blogs & comments of those that visit me, & frequently wink at those i find interesting, in an attempt to lure them back, to make conversation. it doesn't have to be witty, or poetic or more than "good post." it will at least get you looked at.

also how do you find someone else's blog? ive tried on the page that asks for the "Handle" but it always comes back not found- any suggestions?


Flloyd 46M/42F

6/9/2006 8:27 pm

Hi Chanda....We dont have a blog,but have really enjoyed yours.Keep up the good work!!!!

ltsplydrty69 46M/44F

6/10/2006 7:18 am

Hey Chanda, just wanted to say hello. I am not sure how this blog thing works its all new to me but I am reserching it and trying to learn. Anyway I hope you get this, I would love to chat with you more maybe get to know you a little maybe even well who knows. I hope this finds you doing well. Hope to here from you soon.

rm_chanda69 47F
418 posts
6/10/2006 12:13 pm

    Quoting spunky11961:
    Hey! I try to comment when I can.I find pages by viewing and clickin' on visit my blog.Other than that I'm new here and don't understand everything yet
hi! spunky!! see how much good a simple "liked your blog" can do? now ive read yours, & i loved it! 3 degrees off plumb, as Pappaw used to say. just like me!

flloyd- well hello! wink! this would be an excellent way to find what you're looking for, & if you do start one, let me know! i'll be there with bells on!although probably not much else.....

ltsply- don't know how much reading you've done here, but people have their own way of blogging. some treat it as a diary, write poetry & stories. it can be a lot of fun & who knows who you'll meet! see flloyd above!
big hugs to all of you! as for what i like to do with my blog, sometimes its stories, bitch sessions, or just touching base. right now, i'm coming up with the next post, which will be your response OX. - a stimulating storyteller......XXXOOOXXX chanda

is going to write your story, Sir.


moo_nips 57F

6/10/2006 12:14 pm

Hi Ms Leir..This is my first time visiting your blog, but I am sure I will enjoy reading both past and future words of wit and wisdom!

rm_chanda69 47F
418 posts
6/10/2006 10:13 pm

hello yourself ms moo! glad to see you here & hope to again!

Dzd- the way i see it this kind of contract is more for establishing that i do like THIS, i don't want to do THAT, etc. not as a be all end all of what will or wont be done, but as a starting point. putting it on paper just makes it easier to clarify details. such as - in my alt profile one of the things i expressed interest in was breath play. but without further dialog, a potential partner wouldn't know that i like a hand or arm around my throat, but not to the point of cutting off air. it is the threat that gets me off, but i have no interest in being choked. that is a very important line to establish, & a contract can help define things.
as far as trusting the other person, until i really trust them i'm ALL vanilla. if i trust them enough to tie me up, i damn well better be able to trust them enough to stand by their word. if not they have no business playing dom.
thanks for the input! hope to see you here again- intelligent conversation can be hard to find!



rm_chanda69 47F
418 posts
6/10/2006 10:21 pm

    Quoting rm_Ox612:
    Hey, Chanda, I just rented The Fast and the Furious and Gone in 60 Seconds, they're sitting downstairs.

    I also just watched the end of another movie that was already queued up (by me), and I'm remembering how goood it is, so I'll give you your own double feature (which you've probably already seen, but what the heck):

    The Bourne Identity

    Take care.


F & F is one of my faves(i have a thing for Vin- gay or not) & have often fantasized about angelina!!

don't think ive seen ronin, but oddly enough, when the little ones were in bed & the rest of us were picking out a video to watch, guess what everybody else chose? the part where they dyed her hair, then they kissed..... his arms, back, hands on her face, i had chills on my arms & twitches elsewhere & thought of you..



ironman2769 55M  
12610 posts
6/11/2006 3:26 am

My first time here too. Still a bit of a rookie checking blogs. I rarely get comments on mine too. I woner is it cause they didn't enjoy it? Am I insane? lol

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