Empowering Evening  

rm_cele2flowers 42F
118 posts
10/12/2005 6:54 pm

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Empowering Evening

I met a lover last night that I haven't seen for 3 1/2 months. As I do with all my lovers, I gave him a nickname very soon after we met for the first time. I give them all nicknames to make it possible for me to be able to talk about them without compromising their anonymity. He is Hawkeye for the Iowa coat he wore the day we met.

Things felt a lot different between us last night than they had before. Our relationship was never a Dom/sub sort of relationship, but it always felt like he was in control of everything happening and held somekind of power over me. Last night I did not feel any of this power. Suddenly I felt like I had all of the power. As we started to play I felt like a completely different person, able to control everything that was happening, saying things that I'd never said to anyone before.

By the time I started driving home I had returned to my usual self and thought, "How in the world did that happen? Where did that come from?" It was not out of complaint, but with complete wonder and amazement.

So my question for the day is: Has something like this ever happened to anyone else?

AmberSolaire 42M

10/19/2005 9:27 pm

Do you think its because of a change in you? or is it another part of you.Could be a one of, we have an amazing capacity to surprise ourselves.I would like to say I know myself but I doubt I am even close.

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10/24/2005 6:59 pm

Curious. I've had the same thing, but it was with the same person. It's like we had a give/take thing going on. I never felt it was a domination thing, or even power, but a willingness to let someone else control your feelings. Doesn't happen very often, but when it does, it's great...

rm_lwhiowa 71M
260 posts
10/30/2005 7:13 am

Did you like the sensation of being in control? If you enjoyed the experience don't knock it just enjoy it. Some people go either way dom/sub depending on their mood and the circumstances. Just as in dancing only one person can lead. Maybe he wasn't into it and needed you to be the dom to have a better time? Just a few thoughts. Drop me a line and lets chat.

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