Is Today's Generation Looking for Instant Nirvana?  

rm_caringuy1971 45M
4 posts
9/16/2005 11:39 pm

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Is Today's Generation Looking for Instant Nirvana?


For the last 3 weeks I have been chatting with a woman on the net (she claimed she was 31 years old). We used to indulge in casual banter initially but it progressed to net sex in about 10 days.

I met her for the first time last evening at a coffee shop. I was shocked on seeing her. She could not have been older than 18 years at the most.

We had a cup of coffee & chatted for a while, before she asked me to take her to a hotel and have sex with her. She also told me she has been trying to find someone on the net to have sex with, because all her friends have atleast 4 to 5 sexual partners & she has had sex just once.

She was also adamant that she wanted to have sex without protection & that she would not mind (or rather would be happy) if she became pregnant. She told me that if she became pregnant, she would be one up on her friends.

I somehow made some excuse and got away, but the episode got me thinking.

Did I do the correct thing, or did I miss an opportunity to have some great sex? Or could it have been that she has HIV or some other disease? I am totally confused, because she was pretty good & innocent looking, but looks can be deceptive.

Also, the thought comes to mind, why me? I am sure she would have been able to find dozens of men who would have been more than willing to have sex with her without protection.

I feel ancient.

rm_ElanFlux 53F

9/17/2005 4:06 am

She sounds insecure and so low in self-esteem. Too bad it'll escalate into endangering her further. One up on her friends?? She is confusing love and healthy relationships with ANY sex and babies. She's also trying to bypass normal growth experiences. Don't feel ancient. Feel like you did the right thing.


munnu1496 37M
3 posts
1/25/2006 12:41 pm

i am agree with Elan & enjoy your self.


sam9886409221 37M

2/10/2006 11:07 pm

well very good bolgn i think dat u have it rite man....1


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