Confussed  

rm_cable_guy469 49M
4 posts
10/12/2005 4:01 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Confussed

cable_guy469
Im a Little Confussed And Maybe Some one Can clear it up for Me, There are Thousands of Beautiful women here looking for Sex on the Side.
What Confusses me is that Alot of Them Are Married And Dont Want a Married Man?..
Why Not Another Married Partner For Your Discrete Encounters? There Married Im Married So it would be discrete on both sides.
Im looking For the Same Thing Married Women are And Thats some one To play with on the side, Ladies Please Explain this to me.


Lkkn4You 54F
656 posts
10/29/2005 10:35 am

Well dear, from what my married friends say......same old same old...when the man isnt exciting enough in bed that the wife doesnt want to sleep with them why would they? I have hooked up with a couple ones in the past....found the same. OF course they always blame it on the wife, but I found them both very boring and unimaginative in bed. Not meant to be a slam...just a response to the question at hand.


Lkkn4You 54F
656 posts
10/29/2005 10:37 am

OF course it could also just be a polite excuse saying there not attracted to you or something about you also. I would rather hear I dont date married men then....dayum boy you are butt ugly. Just another option.


naturalflirtyfun 46F

1/13/2006 2:37 pm

hi there... I think maybe that married men have the stereotype of just looking to get laid because they dont get that at home. Single men may be thought of differently...No one wants to feel like a piece of meat...or a cheap piece of ass, atleast I dont. I do disagree with Ms. lkkn4you...I have met a couple of very exciting married men...if their wife isnt putting out at home they have more pent up sexuality, and with the right technique you really can unleash a monster!


Udo24fun 105M/105F

5/29/2006 8:59 am

Speaking for myself, I had a cheating husband (notice the past tense) and know how it made me feel and I wouldn't want to do that to another living person regardless of the reason.
I figure if a man is a man he will end one relationship before starting another.
In my personal case we do threesomes. Sometimes the husband wants to video/photograph me with another man or just coach and coax us into trying different things. It has served to help me grow and develop a better sense of self.
I just don't think anyone should cheat. Who wants a cheater a person that cannot be trusted. If he is lying to his wife, cheating on his family why should anyone else put their trust in him?
On the other hand some men do have conditions that are out of the ordinary such as a disabled spouce. If competent, she should be consulted and not cheated on.
My strong feeling are not meant as a reflection on you but in responce to your question.
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