things are working for me, how are you?  

rm_ca_lady80 36F
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4/18/2006 9:45 am

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5/9/2006 2:00 pm

things are working for me, how are you?

Thanks to this site, I have had the guts to talk to people online, and in my everyday life. I am meeting people I want to spend time with. I am finally getting confident and approaching people. The only hitch is that, I have become more attractive to men! They seem to be all over me when I go out. I guess the confidence has its drawback. I no longer am really into guys. Lately, all I think about are women. I dream of them, I fantasize...I am happy around them. Not sure what to do. I think there is still a small part of me that would want a husband. I know my family would be pleased if this were just a phase I was going through. But, I do not believe it is. I think I am finally being honest with myself. Am I just confused, or greedy because I wont give anything up?

Kokomo1963 46M/54F

5/9/2006 8:56 am

You don't have to give anything up. I am truly bisexual--which is mostly a curse, but then again at least you know at 25 instead of 40! I'm definitely in my "man" phase right now. All the sudden they are much more exciting to me than women (of course a lot of that has to do with where I live--very conservative). But my last romantic relationship was with a woman, so for me it's either way.
You will change your opinions and feelings on things a bazillion times over the next year, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years. But bottom line is that it's your life and it has to work for you...just so long as you're not intentionally hurting anyone along the way.

Nice picture, by the way! Yummy!

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