What would you do if...  

rm_bucfannn 61M/60F
1805 posts
8/18/2006 10:23 am

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What would you do if...

someone you used to work with made disparaging/derogatory comments about you, to people he now works with, within the SAME company? And, I am talking about people that I don't even know. But, gee... they now "know" me, apparently...

This rat bastard is a gossip. Pure and simple. He's the type that does it, to make himself appear better. And, he's soooooooooo smooth. In a snide sort of way. When he was on my shift at the hospital, he was forever stirring the shit. Fabrications, lies, etc. If he wasn't around, we just KNEW he was in the coordinator's office, defaming SOMEONE. He was ALWAYS innocent, no matter what.

And, he was BELIEVED. Now, understand, the higher-ups in the lab are penis-fixated. Meaning, ANYTHING with a penis is placed on a pedestal. I talked about this a few months ago, when I brought up the OCD weasel bastard on my blog.

So anyway... a couple of people braved his wrath to let me know what is going on. To stir more shit? I don't think so. I think they wanted me to be aware of what he's doing.

And, btw, this gossip-monger says he's a former SEAL. Uh huh. With all the people I've known that were in Special Forces/Special Ops, I really don't think that being a rat-bastard gossip is standard for being part of such an elite group. First of all, he brags to EVERYONE that he was a SEAL. Wears a SEAL t-shirt. Pardon me, but, I've never known ANYONE that was part of these elite groups to BRAG. Hell, I date a former Marine Recon. I've seen his scars. When I first asked, I was told: "I don't want to discuss it now." Took a couple of months for him to tell me. But, that's how I believe people in these particular groups really are. Not braggarts. And certainly not weasel-bastard gossip mongers.

Well, as pissed off as I was about him defaming my character, I decided to address it the "company" way, and go through the proper channels. I started with my coordinator. Who informed me that I should have gone to the lab administrator. LOL... go figure. So, the lab administrator and I had a chat. She made a phone call to the "team member liaison", and waited for him to call back, to see what the next step was.

I was off Wednesday, and when I got in yesterday, my boss told me what she was told by the liaison. The gossip-monger was to be "counseled" - meaning written up. To cease and desist. Hmmmmmm. Cease and desist, eh? With this particular shithead, I doubt if it will stop. But, we'll see.

However, if it doesn't, I'm prepared to continue the fight. I doubt if ANYONE has ever stood up to this coward. I'm ready to do so. How dare he slander me? And, yes, that's what it is... SLANDER.

He's picked the WRONG person to fuck with.

Xeryien 51M
1445 posts
8/18/2006 11:58 am

So what you are saying is that Fuctards exist in the 'real' world too?

And I can't think of any Seals,Rangers or Special Ops guys that I know who say much of anything at all... (He was such a quiet neighbor....)

Give 'em hell!

rm_bucfannn replies on 8/18/2006 1:58 pm:
Nah, X... he's not a fucktard... he's a fuckwad

A gossipy girly-man...

rm_MisterFrumpy 46M
428 posts
8/18/2006 12:57 pm

some people have so little going on in their own lives they have to get involved in everyone elses. And since no one can really look up his record they cant say he wasnt a seal ya know?

perhaps someone should do some record checking and see if he was even in the military

rm_bucfannn replies on 8/18/2006 2:00 pm:
I know he was in the Navy. That is fact. But a SEAL? I doubt it, Frump. He's even told us he killed women and kids. LMAO. Oh please. Like he really did. And other things he has told us. We saw through it 2 yrs ago... the dumb ass...

justreal4real 59F

8/18/2006 1:01 pm

I absolutely admire you for having the strength to slay the dragon. It is especially risky in the professional arena, but oh so worth it when the swine is exposed for who he really is. I'm so happy to hear this - way to go!

rm_bucfannn replies on 8/18/2006 2:01 pm:
Danke, cupcake. I just will NOT sit around and let him slander me, nor defame my character. He will get a taste of his own medicine...

rm_jami95 66M
69 posts
8/18/2006 1:11 pm

I also don't know any Special Ops guys that brag or even discuss anything they did and I have known quite a few. It is very common that their assignments are classified and they can't discuss them.

I doubt that counseling will work. Castration would be more appropriate. . . . .

Not that I am suggesting you do it...LOL

Givem Hell Babe!

rm_bucfannn replies on 8/18/2006 2:01 pm:
BINGO! You are so right, sweetie.

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
8/18/2006 2:43 pm

can i pick the right person with whom to fuck?...
wink. kisses ...

rm_bucfannn replies on 8/23/2006 11:33 am:
don't you usually?

tut1117 72M  
452 posts
8/18/2006 6:13 pm

Cat, good for you to stand up to the bastard, I as a supervisor of a work unit had someone in my unit try to bring me down, but because I work for the state my boss's boss would not stand up to this black woman. She lied to him on two different occasions about thing that she did, for which I had proof, and he would not even look at the proof I had. I said he would handle it, so he did by transferring her out of my unit, like that really is going to correct the wrong. That is your state government at work for you, worry about a law suit first the disipline. Now she is annoyed about her annual evaluation, 'cause she got a middle of the road one. You go girl!!!

rm_bucfannn replies on 8/23/2006 11:32 am:
His "counseling" session worked. His mouth has stayed shut (so far)...

I was prepared to go further, though...

lanky664 64M
1 post
8/20/2006 8:00 pm

There is a website that will verify if this prick is in fact a SEAL. Get his full name and date of birth if possible, they will check it out. They are former SEAL's. Too many hot shots running around these days saying they are SEAL. I am not You have a sweet face bucfann. Good luck.

rm_bucfannn replies on 8/23/2006 11:31 am:
I would LOVE to have that website, sweets...

and thank you for visiting

rm_ohsolustful 57M
859 posts
8/23/2006 1:42 pm

Never let anyone punk you out, KICK SOME ASS Sweetheart. I agree on the real Military guys not bragging. I grew up in an Army Family, Dad, Grandpa and a Great Uncle and Uncle were all West Pointers. We never learned of any of their exploits till after they died, they just refused to talk about it at all, didnt think they had done anything special at all and if it wasnt for the words of their old buddies and some momentos we would still not have a clue as to what they went through and did. I take my hat off to all who did serve, we all owe them so much more than we can ever possibly hope to repay them. May God bless them all

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