Welllllllllllllll SHIT  

rm_bucfannn 61M/60F
1805 posts
5/28/2006 11:43 am

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Welllllllllllllll SHIT

I really am shallow.

Damn. I thought that whole thing was beneath me, (so to speak). But, apparently, it's not.

When I meet someone, I try to envision what they would be like during an intimate moment. If I get an instant "nah uh", I absolutely can not go any further. No matter what their personality is. And, I am not the type to give benefit of the doubt...


I thought that I really wasn't like that.

Guess I was wrong...

I'm only human, after all. So, shoot me...

rm_gerson42 52M
2419 posts
5/28/2006 11:46 am

Sometimes that is called instinct. I always do better when I trust my instinct.
Take it easy on yourself.

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 11:51 am:
thanks, sweets. I like your definition better than mine...

But, I really do think I'm shallow...........


Tone_33756 55M

5/28/2006 1:04 pm



Fir....errrrrrrr...........nah - we wont shoot ya.

Being human... after all, is.........well........being human.

I know somebody else that thinks the same way...lol

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 1:14 pm:
Yes, I know. But, I thought I was beyond that. I guess not, eh?

rm_jami95 66M
69 posts
5/28/2006 2:01 pm

Instinct is your subconscious mind being smarter than your whims.

I have never gone against my instincts without getting bit in the ass for it... (so to speak).

Always go with your instincts.

You are the least shallow person I know... a little impulsive but not shallow ....

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 2:03 pm:
yes well... remember, you were part of that "impulsive" thing

But yeah, could be construed as instinct, like Ger also said.

rm_jami95 66M
69 posts
5/28/2006 2:06 pm

LOL... I didn't say it was a bad thing ...

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 2:22 pm:
I didn't either, dear

rm_Kingcat4U2 65M
2799 posts
5/28/2006 2:10 pm

Well, at least it's an opportunity to tie you up and blindfold you. The bad news is, you get a smoke before, but not afterwards!

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 8:59 pm:

now, why didn't I think of a blindfold???


rm_jami95 66M
69 posts
5/28/2006 2:24 pm


rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 9:00 pm:
heh heh

Like you were worried????


Lioness_girl 45F
3494 posts
5/28/2006 3:03 pm

Yeah, I've had moments like that myself and I've pretty much ditched that person and sometimes I feel like I made a mistake too. But, if it was meant to be, it will happen

By the way, it was nice talking to you last night.


Come have fun! Visit my blog at Lioness_girl

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 9:01 pm:
Yup. But, when you know it ain't happenin', is it easier to be a shit? I hate being that way, but, I wear my heart on my sleeve....

And, yep. Hope to see you again

oldude1946 71M

5/28/2006 3:06 pm

If you ever meet me you will like me because I'm easy
It's a cowboy thing, an old one but still there.

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 9:01 pm:
You being easy is one of the many things I love about you

peaches19555 61M

5/28/2006 3:55 pm

I have a pair of shorts that I really like to wear when I workout. They are threadbare, faded, and the hems are tattered. Years of wear have them looking as no other shorts. It is time they were replaced but everywhere I shop the shorts look so new and different. Am I to be blamed for my preferences?

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/28/2006 9:02 pm:
Perfect analogy...

Yes indeed.

rm_LoyalCumpany 46M
3204 posts
5/28/2006 11:09 pm

If being shallow is being human, so be it. Rather be shallow than unhappy, right?

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/29/2006 8:03 am:
Yep. But, I still hope I don't come off looking as shallow.....

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
5/30/2006 4:47 am

It's not really being shallow Fann. Sometimes you either click, or don't. On occasion something might work with some effort, but if that's not what you're looking for, why subject yourself to the pitfalls for the alternative?

And there's no shame in being human, we all (or most at least) are
And no shooting, you're too cute to lose

Hugs, C

rm_bucfannn replies on 5/31/2006 10:50 am:
Thanks, sweetie. I know what you mean. But, still doesn't alter the fact that I make snap judgements.

I suppose I could say I was intuitive... yep...

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