It worked  

rm_bucfannn 61M/60F
1805 posts
6/7/2006 8:54 am

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It worked

it finally WORKED!

I changed my profile. Again.


This time, I used words to scare away, not entice.

And, it worked!

I'm not getting emails, (from fucktards nor from "normal" guys), and I'm liking it.

I can concentrate on what's going on in my life now, and not have to deal with outside stimuli. Not that I'm still not looking. Nah. I like looking. I even chat. But, it was getting to the point of ridiculous, waking up to a bunch of emails, and knowing full well I was never going to meet ANY of them.

Someone asked me why I am still a gold member, instead of a standard one, since I'm not "looking looking". Well, I happen to like the perks. I may look into silver status, when this gets close to renewal, but, I will never become just a standard member. I'm too nosy for that.


An interesting thing happened last week. I got a phone call from someone from my past. We dated for five months, and then just stopped. We never "broke up", but we each just stopped talking. It was strange.

So, he called me last week. We went out. Had fun at Busch Gardens. Talked a lot about a bunch of different things. We found out we still care for the other, but, will take it nice and slow. So, whatever happens, will happen. I have no expectations this time around. None at all. So, we'll see.


And, of course, the LtC's birthday is in 2 days. I'm looking forward to celebrating with him. He's a lot of fun, and so dang sexy. Too bad he can't wear his uniform friday night. I'd be all over that. (ok, I'll be all over it anyway, but, it would have been even MORE fun with the uniform.)

somethingelse40 75M
14676 posts
6/7/2006 12:00 pm

You're so cute, I'm defenseless: d’feet went over d’fence before d’tail.

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/7/2006 12:46 pm:
Thank you.

I haven't heard that in a long time... d'feet... heh.

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
6/7/2006 12:02 pm

Nice 'new' profile Cat...should "I" be scared?

Interesting that you and your friend made contact again. Usually those relationships just fade away with time. Good luck!

Again, have fun on Friday!

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/7/2006 12:46 pm:
Somehow, Chris, I don't think you'd be skeered

And thanks. I'm sure it will be a hoot ...

peaches19555 61M

6/7/2006 12:36 pm

if you expect LtC will be flying in you'd better get that strip mowed (smile)

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/7/2006 1:25 pm:
dang, babe. You have a GREAT memory

The landing strip will be lighted and ready to go... yep.

somethingelse40 75M
14676 posts
6/7/2006 5:29 pm

If you can’t find any other meaning in everything that’s happening, try to consider it as entertainment. If one of us thinks its funny and one doesn’t, one of us must be wrong. Do you live near Tampa?

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/7/2006 8:18 pm:
Yea, I live near Tampa...

somethingelse40 75M
14676 posts
6/7/2006 8:56 pm

Near Brandon?

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/7/2006 9:00 pm:
no, near Clearwater

tut1117 72M  
452 posts
6/8/2006 3:21 am

Boy, not to hurt your feelings, but each morning I skip right down to the blogs on your profile, of course after glanceing at that lovly smiling face, to see what has been written, guess I will need to see what the profile says now.
It is interesting how few people know their Florida geography, would it be to much like work to look at a map to see where your are relative to them, must be a generation thing.

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/8/2006 6:36 am:
Gee Tut. Then you don't know the real me, eh?

And yea, a map would work. It's not a generation thing, though. Check out the age...........................

rm_MisterFrumpy 46M
428 posts
6/8/2006 5:40 am

you could have just changed it to "looking for true love"

99.99999999999999% of guys here wouldnt touch that

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/8/2006 6:35 am:
heh heh. It's almost as bad, Frump. I used the C word.


somethingelse40 75M
14676 posts
6/8/2006 5:57 am

How far is Clearwater from Brandon? Should I attempt a political or a military solution?

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/8/2006 6:37 am:
I have no idea milage wise. Brandon is a whole 'nother country to me....

AltumHunksUnite 53M

6/8/2006 7:20 am

Ah, I was going to suggest adding a reference to "true love", but Frump beat me to it.

Let me drive. I like the view

rm_bucfannn replies on 6/8/2006 7:24 am:
Yep, but, I even think the C word is better.

heh heh.

(you have to know how much I laughed when changing my profile. Truly, it cracked me up)

rm_jami95 66M
69 posts
6/25/2006 10:52 pm

If You really want to have them running for the hills use the dreaded M word......

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