Let's be honest  

rm_bstybnbn 60F
6 posts
10/15/2005 6:14 pm

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Let's be honest

Since I've become a member here on AdultFriendFinder, some of the responses I get are from married men. I mean what you desire is your business, but it makes me wonder why even get married in the first place if you still crave the desire to be with other women? What would make a married man want to (not to be crude) cheat on his wife? To be honest, I have been with a married man until recently. I'd appreciate your honesty.

MochaMoxy 49F

10/15/2005 9:51 pm

I will be very interested in the responses from men as well. I specifically have posted on my profile "NO MARRIED/ATTACHED MEN" and STILL they write me. Many of them claim to not be getting enough of home but are "happily married", some say "value honesty". Huh???? Honesty? Then why are you CHEATING on your wife??? Some say that they live like roommates with their wife but are still together for the kids. I mean, I really want to know....why do men, especially those that say they are happily married, stray? Do they ever worry about thier wife or significant other finding out? A few of them actually have pictures on here with their FACES shown. Please, enlighten us all. I truly want to understand a man's perspective on this....

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3044 posts
10/16/2005 1:39 am

I once met a preacher who used to say.....

" If a man cheats on his wife, ...
he'll cheat on anybody !"

applies to women too lol

maybe thats why we always play together

rm_Lrac2001 67M
1 post
10/16/2005 5:04 pm

I Really don't think that a man who cheats gets into a relationship to build it, stregnthen it, pushes power to it, etc... Some men really don't know what they want or gives in to someone and wind up not living up to his obligations or his role in the relationship. Getting married is certainly not a solution to a on again, off again relationship or any kind of "Cure all" for a rocky relationship, or part of a poorly thought out plan to keep your girl from leaving your dumb ass.
I'm with you, bstybnbn, Why even get married....? I think the bond of matrimony should be arrived at as the natural next step with someone you cherish and love and not an fantasy place you can easily buy a ticket for.....

rm_Simigolfer 56M
2 posts
10/31/2005 12:01 am

Clearly I cannot speak for all married men, but my rational is this. I married a lovely woman who lacks any sex drive. We have not had sex in well over a year. The comment about living like "roomates" from MochaMoxy is not far off. The tension that filled our marriage around the lack of sexual compatibility was leading us to a divorce. I did not want to get involved in a long term relationship that would end my marriage, so I started having nsa sex. The tension is gone. My marriage is in tact and I have met some very nice women. Am I cheating? Of course, but I didn't cheat I would have to divorce her. Would that be a better solution? I don't know.

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