Moving to the beat of your own drummer  

rm_brucebklyn 46M
2 posts
12/15/2005 12:17 pm

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Moving to the beat of your own drummer

Hey All, So I'm new to the Adult Finder community and to the whole blogging thing (this is my first blog), but I wanted to give it all a try. It's rainy, cold and grey outside right now, just the type of weather that lets you stop and think about life (and how i'm going get home without too much drama). So I'm reflecting on the part of the journey that I'm on right now. How many of you are in a kind of limbo space? You know, not exactly sure what type of connection/relationship you should prioritize in your life. That's a part of where I am. I mean I would love to meet a woman on this site and have wild crazy sex, but at the same time, I'd love to meet a woman and fall in love. One doesnt have to have anything to do with the other, but it would be great if you kind find great sexy love in one package. So I'm in a general search mode, seeing what life brings me, but torn between great love and great lust.

Any of y'all out there feel me on this? Where are you in your journeys?

Look forward to hearing your replies.

Peace - BB

dvinechocolate 44F
17 posts
12/15/2005 1:23 pm

I feel where you are going and where you are at.I have also felt the same as you. I started out joining this site wanting to meet a man and falling deeply in love, then I thought maybe I just want the sex part but you know what ended up happening, I followed the desire that I really wanted to do. That was to be with another female to see if that is what I really was searching for,and you know it was. I already had a man at home and I knew what it was like with him and you know just being out of the dating seen so long I really didnt want to try it again with a man to be honest. I said well I only live once and if I don't try it now while I'm young I want never try it. We sit back and evaluate alot of things about our life that we wish to change and you know sometime we never end up doing what we really want because we tend to put it aside for different reasons. I learned to move at the beat of my own drum, making my own music an finding out I had made a song.A song made up of things I wanted in my life and things I know I needed to change, moving to the beat of my own drum. I made some beautiful music,what a joyful noise I made.LOL. You are the only one who can decide which way your journey will go just make sure whatever way it go its what you want and need.If you just browse around here for a little while you might find what you want and if you don't then you know it was a journey worth taking.

rm_brucebklyn 46M

12/16/2005 5:06 am

Wow, thanks for such a insightful reply.

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