Any one out there?  

rm_brock_stone2 46M/46F
1 posts
7/23/2006 9:33 pm

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8/27/2006 10:03 pm

Any one out there?

My girlfriend and I started with this service over 6 months ago. We have been looking for a single girl to join us. I have to say it has been a mix of fun, excitement, and frustration. Unfortunately, the last of the three is our lasting impression. We have continued to send e-mail after e-mail with not one response. We have begun to think the whole thing is like the “Truman Show”. You know, the show where Jim Carey is the only one that does not know it is not real? It has felt like we are the Jim Carey character. Like this whole thing is a set up and we are the only ones not in on it. The only e-mails we have gotten are either some sort of scam messages or from a couple. It has amazed me how many couples have approached us even with a profile that explicitly says that is not what we want.

From looking at the other couples, it is clear that there is a lot of competition, but from as hard as we have tried, it just seems as though something would have worked out. I am writing this to get some sense of others experiences to see if we should keep up the good fight or put up the white flag.

rooler1000 49M/34F
5 posts
8/26/2006 10:26 am

Hi guys. We can definitely feel your pain in the search. We have met only one single female through this site but have been fortunate in some of the couples we have encountered. When finally we were frustrated, and brave enough, we accepted an invite to a couples pool party were we met some great people. They made us feel welcome and were very respective of our rules and boundaries. We were not put into any position where we felt pressured into a "couple" swap but Em was able to explore her desires with other women. We have become close friends with one of these couples and although we are still not ready for any swapping it is great to know that they are comfortable with our pace.
Maybe this type of setting could help you with your search. We have not given up on ours!


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