Dating and the single father.  

rm_briansmiles2 58M
11 posts
7/30/2005 1:17 am

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Dating and the single father.

What the heck has happened to Dating and long lasting relationships in the last 20 years? I'm fairly new to dating after my divorce and being a single dad dosn't help. When I look for a lasting relationship it usually happens like this....I meet a nice woman my age, we chat, have dinner, talk about our lives, she finds out that I have a son that lives with me, she is gone......

Having a fuckbuddy is different my having a son dosn't enter into the relationship. It's usually chat, find out about eachother (well as much as we want to tell eachother), feel comfortable meet, have awsome, exciting sex, chat, meet to have more sex, and so on and so on. Why is it easier to have a sexual relationship than a lasting one?

Just some questions coming to mind at 4:00 am in the morning.

Theflinkychick 105F

7/30/2005 9:06 am

That is a good question no matter what time of day you ask it. I think it is lack of responsiblity. In a no strings kind of relationship you just see one another in no stress environments and leave the world behind. Not so in a lasting relationship...

Not all who wander are lost.

rm_briansmiles2 58M

7/31/2005 7:06 am

I think that is quite true. It is that lack of responsiblity that makes it more appealing than the long term relationships I guess. Although the sex is usually Great, the fullfillment is lacking.

rm_choccreame 49F

2/17/2007 12:34 pm

I think that deep down in side the women's mine this is going on..
1. She does not want to be a Mom.
2. she my want to be to a Mom but she may want to have her own child with you and because you have a child you may not want another.
3. The big one she may not want to have to deal with your ex.. No matter the reason you guys slit you still have ties bind, either with the mother and or the mothers her family...
That a lot to deal with.
Well, that what going on in my little brain.
I am a female never married and no kids....
I think about this when going out with a single dad...
I look at the big picture...
I have broke up with some really nice guys not because I want to.. but because I had to deal with a nutty ex wife (most time she did not want him she just did not want him to have anyone) or he had Mom baby drama it was just too much dating him, the kid and his ex...
4. and last lot time as all kids they want their parent together they can make it hell also..
but not all women think this but you find what your looking for just know where they coming from ...

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