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Did you know...
Did you know...
That the male Platypus has lethal poison spikes on his elbows? Yup, that's right- the duck-billed platypus is a lethal killing machine. Whoda thunk it?
OK- now that I have you attention. Hey! Wipe that look off your face! You never know when the platipie might try to take over the world. Now you know what to look out for. Cute they might be, but deadly.... You were warned.
Now, can we get onto the rest of the blog? Thanks.
OK- so I was wondering where a newly separated guy would find someone to have fun with, and here I am. I love to see that there are so many folks wanting friends with benefits out there, and am looking forward to meeting some of you. Mostly wanting to meet folks for friendship right now, but there is a lot to be said for "sex therepy".
And as so many people say in thier opening line, "no strings attached" I figure I need to explore that particular phrase. What does it mean? Well, to most guys (I think I can speak from that point of view) it would mean that there is nothing preventing either person from pursuing whatever other relationships they want. EITHER PERSON. Not just him or her, but both. And you see, thats where the breakdown usually occurs.
The breakdown is a natural occurence, as there is almost always going to be more interest on one side than the other. Really, this is no different from almost all other relationships, but when a guy has the "contract" or "understanding/sgreement" they usually mean it, and will do what they feel is thier right under said contract. Basically, if you want a monomagous friends with benefits type of relationship, be VERY clear.
Most folks who have had good experiences in the past will know what I mean-both the good and the bad. If you have never had one of these relations, then you really need to be clear on the boundaries you want or need, wether you are the guy or the gal.
Remember- clear, concise communication is the key. We guys can be pretty dim sometimes!
Take care all, and have fun with your replies. This is all for the sake of good clean discourse- don't take me too seriously or you'll get your g-string all bunched up!