Letter to aff newbie..  

rm_boytoysexcam 55T
63 posts
3/2/2006 5:25 am

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3/6/2006 11:34 am

Letter to aff newbie..

Recieved a query in my AdultFriendFinder mail the other day..and being the nice person that I am, it's my policy to attempt an answer to ALL queries, even if it maybe only one of those quick replies. But if I see that the suitor was new (and not a rude jerk) and needed some AdultFriendFinder guidance, I respond, with something like the below. The reason I put it here is because I tire of rewriting it every week or so in a different form..

I think his query was something like:


And my response went something like:

Hey Sweetie,

I can see you are new..but you are way ahead of yourself there, it takes a bit more than that to get EVEN a normal girl. Tgirls are even more jaded.
Have you read my profile? If not I have attached it..And you are lucky you got me. Most would not even reply, but here are a few things you should know to get around AdultFriendFinder..

Read my profile. It is very informative. The turn ons are great to read, but pay close attention to my turn offs, which are few.

Lose the capital letters, its like screaming. If you have to choose only one to type with, pick lower case letters.

Chat alot...many like myself, like to get to know someone first by chatting in a chatroom, by im, or a few emails. This is not game playing. This is a person getting comfortable. Any girls, tgirls or ggirls have to be romanced at least SOME.. and many times after some successful chats, you might think you have someone, and a week into getting to know them, they stop communicating with you..again, this is not game playing. This is you fucking up, and losing sight of what's important to a girl.

My best advice? Chat with some of the wonderful tgirls in the Genderexchange Chatroom. They will chat with you. BUT be sure to be polite and return often. They will get to know you. Watch the other successful males in there..the ones that get respect..let others make mistakes in there for you. But if you see me, be sure to say hi. I will try to guide you.

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
3/2/2006 6:20 am

sounds like sound advice to me

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Lioness_girl 45F
3494 posts
3/2/2006 9:22 am

you said that in such a nice, not insulting way


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