Blogs that rub me the wrong way..(at least I was rubbed)  

rm_bluegenes51 56M
115 posts
5/12/2005 2:33 pm

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Blogs that rub me the wrong way..(at least I was rubbed)

There are a number of blog postings that fall into one of two general categories... "sex help directions" given by men, supposedly for men and "bitching" posts by women who complain about how rude, crude, and socially unacceptable some men are on AdultFriendFinder.

With age comes wisdom (OK, I missed the boat on this one, but at least I made it to the dock to watch it sail) and with age comes a certain amount of cynicism (sp??). I have to say that , to me, it seems that these guys are saying, "have sex with me 'cause I know where your Graftenburg spot is" or "have sex with me 'cause I know how to lick your clit big time" or "have sex with me 'cause I am a beautiful sensitive person" or "have sex with me 'cause I can make you squirt"..etc., etc.

I have read a number of posts that complain about the manners that men use on this site. Many of the commenters are people who post blogs that I read regularly and have respect for their intellect. I have to ask, " Do you respond to all of the email that you receive?" The way that I was brought up, it would be considered rude to ignore an email. I realize that women receive volumns of email..but there are "quick" responses, autoreplies and email filteriing which would alert a potential emailer that (s)he "should not even bother". People that post "the moronic email of the week" or some variation of that are , in my opinion, worse than the "morons" that sent the offending email.

Another "bitch" I have is when men feel that they must defend "the honor of women of AdultFriendFinder" . but I will deal with that at another time, if I remember

rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
5/12/2005 3:13 pm

Regarding the e mail issue: I don't respond to every message I get, because as a standard member I have a limited number of messages I'm allowed each day (conveniently for them, they never say what that number is... I don't know I'm near my limit until I hit it). I do, however, have the "instant reply" feature (or whatever they call it) activated on my profile, so that everyone who sends me a message gets a response indicating that I might not be able to answer them because of that limitation. If I have a "slow" mail day, I might respond to those who I have no interest in, just as a polite "no," but if my inbox is busy, I won't waste a precious message on someone I have no interest in.

When I upgrade, I do intend to respond to everyone.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/12/2005 3:19 pm

I do try to respond to all my emails; sometimes not as quickly as I would like to b/c of AdultFriendFinder technical difficulties, but I do b/c that is how I was raised too.

I find that some manners with some of the AdultFriendFinder folks are a bit to be desired at times, but I have, on the whole, experienced some wonderful folks through actual meeting and/or the blogs. I hope that you have better luck in the future with your experiences as well.

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
5/12/2005 7:56 pm

*scrunching down trying to hide* Ummmm...sorry BG, I'm guilty of being one of those "People that post 'the moronic email of the week' or some variation..." Sorry that I offended you.


rm_EE407 41F
3903 posts
5/13/2005 1:11 am

BG, well... like the other ladies I feel the need to respond, so here it cums....

* The manners of some men do at times seem somewhat crude.
* I receive a lot of mail as do the other ladies. I try to answer them, but also have my auto-reply on. I'm afraid I just don't have the time to answer them all. Besides.. What am I supposed to answer to a mail that says: chat with me? It shows me that some men don't even take the time to write an interesting message. I always react to mails that prove that someone has taken the time ...

* When you get round to "the defending the honour of"... I'll have an opinion on that for you as well....
I think it's sweet that chilvary isn't totally dead!

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
5/13/2005 4:58 am

ooooooo who woke in a crab of a mood today,

papy does answer mail but as the others have said we standard mortals only get so many a day,some times 8 some times 9 replys allowed,so we cannot answer all of them even if we wanted too and really some just are not worth wasteing valuble dial up costs to answer.

Kisses for a better day

I'm a

i'm here to stay

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
5/13/2005 1:17 pm

Now this is my kind of stuff. Posts that stir up controversy and raise hackles.

rm_bluegenes51 56M
245 posts
5/15/2005 11:13 am

Sorry... am not supposed to go on the computer 'til my psych meds kick in..please ignore the post..

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