7 SECRETS FOR MEN: Be the Lover She Always Dreamed Of  

rm_blisspiano 49M
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11/29/2005 6:42 am

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7 SECRETS FOR MEN: Be the Lover She Always Dreamed Of

To me sex is all about Blissful Transformation. It is about being 'THE ONE' lover that she's always dreamed of. The one that she will remember for the rest of her life. The one that changes her forever and there's no turning back.


SECRET #1: Build up your electrical sexual charge

It's more than just putting the Vajra (penis) into her Yoni. Its about CHARGING the Vajra with Light and Prana.

How do you do that? For men, you have to first learn how to do a full lotus and sit in quiet meditation. The next step is to stand up and practice in front of a mirror rocking your pelvis, breathing in and out like you're having sex and as you rock forward, TIGHTEN your PC muscle (located between your anus and your Vajra).

You're pumping a crystal transducer located deep inside your tail bone. This builds up energy, so that BEFORE you insert your Vajra it is already fully charged.

ANALOGY: try running a vibrator with low batteries. Get the point?

SECRET #2: Keep your pants on UNTIL she takes them off.

This one secret actually will make you a better lover. You have hands, you have a mouth, you have your chest, you have your legs, you have your fingers. SAVE THE COCK FOR LAST

SECRET #3: Allow her to insert you inside

This is key- don't just THRUST it in. Play with her. Rub her clitoris with your Vajra around and around.

SECRET #4: Discipline yourself so that your personal satisfaction during sex is completely irrelevant. I.e. ITS NOT ABOUT YOU

When you focus all your attention and energy on pleasing your partner, something magical happens. She feels that you are completely satisfied with your self and it allows her 'Shakti' or feminine juices to flow.

SECRET #5: The Clitoris is the Key to her Bliss

Learn about the clitoris - there are thousands of books on the subject - but really, every woman is different. I'll give you a tip though - downward stroking of the clitoris, gently with alternating pressure brings her to prime wetness. You must know how. If she's feeling comformtable, ask her to show you how she likes to be touched. Put your hands together on her clitoris so she can regulate the movement and pressure you apply to her as you stroke her.


Yes! Learn how to change positions from 'missionary style' to 'doggie style' without pulling out. You can move into ANY sexual position without pulling out. Keep the CONTINUITY and she will love you for it.


There are many ways to orgasm. Tantra has nothing to do with ejaculation control. Sure, its a good thing to know how to do, but if you become a master of charging your LIGHT (secret #1) you will naturally be able to control your orgasm.

By controlling your orgasm you have a few choices: a) pull out and come all over her
b) pull out and hold it in completely
c) my secret way. Want to know?

OK, i wont give all of it away, but here's the tip of the iceberg....

You do #1 while you're still inside. Draw in all the energy and then release 1/2 of your seed. Just enough to wet her, either inside or outside (on her breasts or back.) Rub it in until its dry. By that time, your semen will have recharged. Keep doing #1 - the CHARGING of your sexual battery.

BOTTOM LINE: after you do this - you'll stay hard enough to satisfy her - or even a room full of women and stay hard the whole time! Be the last man still standing while everyone else is limp in an orgy!

What are your secrets?

Share them in this blog!

rm_lickmepretty 50F
851 posts
11/30/2005 3:37 am

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cuntsucker234 54M
3 posts
8/10/2006 12:34 am

I am keen to know how is it possible to perform # 1 while being inside her

cuntsucker234 54M
3 posts
8/11/2006 1:45 am

Its great article. I never read like this. I am again reading steps suggested by you. All steps suggested by you are mind boggling. Its like a fantasy world. To start with your Secret # 1, frankely speaking I am not able to make out what to do and where to start. Can you explain in a more detailed manner.I am very much curious to know. If there is a book available on this, pl provide details.

I am also wondering about Secret # 6. how is it possible to change position from missionary to doggey without coming out. I can't beleive this. Will you take time to throw a little light on this.

May be you desrve something like a noble or oscar for mastery in enjoying sex till the core.

with regards

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