sunday morning  

rm_bikerdad22 50M
51 posts
8/27/2006 8:49 am

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8/30/2006 7:28 pm

sunday morning

I recently posted in the group things that piss me off and victims piss me off.Boy did that start some shit.Let be a little more indepth here. I am recently out of a long term relationship that died because she couldn't overcome her past so yes i'm a little raw about ppl not being able to get over there past's.I speak from experience mine was horrible many unconsceinable things happened to me as a child and teen and I do not let those things rule me today. Granted I don't speak of them in most settings but I have talked about it with a few ppl and felt better knowing I wasn't alone(can figure out the rest) that said.
It just amazes me that ppl can't get past there hang ups and feel that they have to always respond with anger.Anger is not a proper way to confront issues with ppl.All it does is create more hostility and resentment.And that is what killed my relationship.her anger at her being spewed forth onto the world.I just got threpoint that I couldn't take it for another second.
But at the same time Il oved her with all my being and hated to see it end was real hard to let it go.for my own sanity i was forced to
couldn't watch her berate her kids or mine any longer. And as it was brought to my attetion the kids had different rules mine and hers. This really bothered me alot. any how I'm not sit here and throw stones when she can't defend herslf

So now I'm looing or am I my life is ok just how it is I don't believe I want another committed relationship at this time. any how this going to end here maybe more will follow I don't know

samandsub44 56M/56F

8/28/2006 7:14 am

Good for you!! No one can make another happy. You make your own happiness! Have a great day!

rm_bikerdad22 replies on 8/30/2006 5:50 am:
thanks for the comment

rm_jismgobbler 50F
71 posts
8/30/2006 7:04 am

From reading your blogs, you sound like a sweet, level-headed "dude". (Not to mention hot, hot, HOT!). I agree with you that people should be able to put the past behind them. We all have shit we don't want to think about. If it's not happening to you today...shut up!

rm_bikerdad22 replies on 8/30/2006 7:13 pm:
a woman after my own heart... stop by anytime

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