What do I mean by refuges?  

rm_bigwallis2 65M
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11/10/2005 5:28 am

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What do I mean by refuges?


What do I mean about being a refuges from other groups? Well have you had members of other groups or it's leaders BASH you in the group or spead rumors and/or lies about you, complain about your love making, on the group site and in emails? Then get you banned from the group so you could not respond to it? All just because you disagreed with them. Maybe you just got tired of seeing it happen to others, and left the group. Well here is a place where you can call home, You can vent you feelings and frustations about it or How big people are treated in genral. Just remember to keep it respectful.

I will start the venting off with a pet peeve of mine. "Hygeine Myths about large people": Have you ever been the victim of the Myth, that Large people have bad Hygeine? What is really sad is when if is from other large people.

I have had this happen to me. It was the 1st group activity I ever went to in another group. It turned ot to be a gand bang for the person who set the meeting up. she came out in her nighty and ask the men if they wanted to take a shower. Now this was the 1st time I ever did anything like this. I just met these people and was more than a bit scared. What strip off my clothes and leave them unattended while I take a shower?? I just had a shower at home before leaveing the house, for the "meeting". I only had to pee once and washed myself afterwords, so I didn't see any reason to shower. Another man who just came from work did take here up on it, but he wasn't in there long enough to get wet much less get clean. Anyway the next day she posted in the group how one man didn't take a shower. and a big long speal about poor hygeine. Well since I never did this before, and I didn't know the right protocal. Well I said so, and said that I was sorry it would never happen again. Well the next few meeting were at a swingers Club that doesn't have showers. She never had anything to do with me or the other large men there because of our "Hygeine" But but the she didn't object to the skinny ones and she never asked them to shower. I wouldn't have minded so much but she started to spead rumors about the "poor Hygeine" of the big men in the group. We had to complain to AdultFriendFinder and they deleted the posting

rm_bigwallis2 65M
2 posts
2/2/2006 8:23 am

Gee I haven't been on here for the last few weeks It seem that someone sent out a "hitSquad" To bad mouth me both here and in my group. Apperently AdultFriendFinder has shut that other group down again. I had nothing to do with it this time. I have not complained about her bad mouthing and threats since the last week in November. You can only bad mouth threaten so many people for so much, before others learn who really has the problems. I was not the only person who complained about her to AdultFriendFinder. In fact one reason I haven't been on here that much lately is I got tired with the mess. I thought that if I stayed off for a bit and not post, then AdultFriendFinder would find out for themselfs who was the problem. They have been keeping a close eye on the other group and I guess she started to bash people again and got shut down again. I would not know for sure as I haven't even bothered to check her group page for over 6 weeks. I have dealt will enought a Bi-Polar woman with my exwife thank you, I don't need to keep dealing with one on here. Life is to short. In fact I would be posting this if it wasn't for her and her friends coming on my blog and group tp bad mouth me. Gee you don't see me doing that to her.


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